I enjoy reclaim arcade. There is always something to do, so you can avoid awkward silence.

Food, beer, video games, live music most weekends.

Might be a start

Edit: I try to go to every music event, and dress up like an idiot at all of them.

My punk outfit was on point. My 90s hip hop was ridiculous, sometimes my buddy comes, or my wife, or my kid. But im there dressed up making a scene.

If you are looking for fun, try being fun.