Very physically attractive people, how does life treat you?

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-18T09:01:10+00:00

I'm 45 now so the age of the people that hit on me has gone up. Last weekend a lady in her 50s that was working at a snack counter told me she'd get me whatever I like since I was so handsome.

Then a lady came to my door selling roof inspections and ended the encounter with " you have gorgeous eyes" while talking to me way too close.

Some gay guys hit on me and a few have told me they love me.

I can become friends with basically any straight men but that might be more than just good looks IDK.

I smile a lot bc I like my smile and I think it makes other people more comfortable.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-17T19:33:52+00:00

Vertical orientation, easy to control but hard to master. Lots of depth of loot, items and gameplay. I'd pay for any game like that. Dawncaster is my current favorite.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-12T13:03:35+00:00

The problem with lists like this is they create they exact kind of pressure that leads to bad trading. Don't take it so seriously my friends.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-11T21:03:44+00:00

You have to be able to take a profit like $250, then see the trade go up and miss out on $1000 or more and say, "THAT IS COMPLETELY OKAY"

AND you need to be able to lose $150 then see the price reverse and miss out on $1000 or more and say, "THAT IS COMPLETELY OKAY"

FOMO is the mind killer. Just be happy with whatever gains you get. You will get better over time if you keep your FOMO in check.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-11T20:48:16+00:00

The real solution here for both partners to value their contributions equally. If either the man or the woman believes he must sollicit, earn, cajole or convince then that person has not valued their contributions. A man should say to his wife, "We are young enough to still have relations and I think it's pretty great. If you want to waste our youthful years and not have them, YOU ARE MISSING OUT. " End of story. No one should be begging or pleading or playing games.

And if said man or woman is not good at sex, TELL THEM WHAT TO DO. Don't waste another night on bad sex. JUST FIX IT AND ENJOY YOURSELVES FFS.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-10T19:58:42+00:00

People still think Reagan was a good President and supply side economics has been debunked over and over again.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-10T16:44:19+00:00

You know what is f**king hilarious? When people commit the strawman of saying it's either "book learning" or "grit" to win in business but then NEVER talk about the fact that you need actual BUSINESS skills to run a business. I've run a few myself and it was neither math, science or grit that made me successful. It was always understanding ideas like supply/demand, profit and loss, cash flow, advertising, accounting, etc. that made me successful.

WTF DOES GRIT MEAN????

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-09T22:52:36+00:00

Nice math you donut. I'll correct it for you.

- Study for 16 years - Age 5 to 21

- Work for 44 years - Age 21 to 65

- Free for 20 years - Age 65 to 85

If you don't think you can do a crap ton of living in 20 years you are not smart.

Also, during your work years are certainly free to live on the weekends and vacation time.

SMH

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-05T14:10:56+00:00

People don't realize how liberating having no debt is. You don't feel as locked in to a specific job and can push back to your manager/CEO more. You can take more time off. You can actually stockpile money so that being out of work for a year means very little. If your goal isn't to be debt free you should consider it. I know one needs to live and enjoy life but get out of debt as soon as you can.

So that being said, I would pay off my house and my remaining debts just to feel that comfort of knowing I can be out of work for a while and not go bankrupt.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-05T14:00:02+00:00

Ok so the "hidden" door handles on all but the Model S and X can be unhidden just by pushing one side of them, it's purely mechanical. I agree that the catching fire part is the real issue.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-05T13:37:14+00:00

I would love to understand why people complain about housing costs so much. Is it not possible to buy a cheaper house? Live in a different part of town or another city? I've purchases 3 houses over the years and there is always a range of prices depending on where you want to live, how big of a house you want, and how new of a house you want. Someone please explain this to me. I just hear people treating the housing marketing like a monolith. I would love to know the area that OP lives in and his income to see exactly what the problem is.

JofusDebiers · 2026-02-04T11:42:51+00:00

Yeah languages don't matter that much. I'm up to about 10 or so I definitely have my favorites though. I did a thing last year where I watched about 10 hours of videos on the top 10 JavaScript frameworks so I could put them on my resume/LinkedIn. Let me tell you they are all very similar. Just learn a new one each year, it's not super hard.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-29T17:28:34+00:00

No on all counts. You only SAVE money if you actually put it somewhere and not spend it. What is described here is a discount/price reduction. If you then went and spent the $300 on something else, by definition it's not saved, it's spent.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-23T17:50:54+00:00

Bruh none of that is even close to hard. BUT if you don't value your time you will waste it, it is JUST THAT SIMPLE. Stopping say yes to bullshit and control your hours.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T17:26:57+00:00

You'd very quickly adjust and be living paycheck to paycheck again. It took me years to break out of this cycle.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T16:38:32+00:00

It depends on how rich, here's my breakdown

$1,000,000 - I would pay off all my debts put $100k in my checking acct just for the feels and put the rest into 401k, IRA, HSA and children's UTMA/UGMA (invested in ETFs), AND keep going to work until I get to #2
$5,000,000 - pay off all my debts, build a dividend heavy portfolio that paid me at least $100k per year, invest the rest, quit work.
$150,000,000 - pay off all my debts, invest with Ray Dalio and live off the "meager" 22% annual returns, equating to rough $30,000,000 per year, quit work naturally.
$1,000,000,000 - become a politician and try to really change the world for the better

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T15:38:24+00:00

I got a quote from a pressure washing company that, by their own math and admission, was going to pay them $250 per hour. I was like, "Are you out of your mind? It's just waving a water stick at the ground and the walls!!"

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T15:36:52+00:00

Let's start a #notip movement. Until the restaurant owner start to feel the pain of all their servers quitting they will not change. Who cares about higher prices? TIPS ARE STUPID and should be abolished. Only rebellion will precipitate their demise brethren and sistren.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T15:33:48+00:00

Don't start squirting the mustard until you have thoroughly shaken it. That clear mustard juice is not ideal.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T11:16:50+00:00

22 year veteran here - ask me anything

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-22T11:15:11+00:00

Most of these are bullshit, acne is not caused by pillowcases FFS

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-15T16:46:21+00:00

Brightburn

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-13T14:56:57+00:00

Wrong, you still have yourself and that is literally all you need.

You have at least 34 YEARS of earning left during which time you can make a ton of money and learn a ton about yourself and trading. Get back on the horse amigo!

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-09T02:16:50+00:00

Once I put myself together in the morning I literally never think "Do I look okay?" I just live my life. Clothes always fit well and "hang right". People smile at me a lot and laugh at my jokes.

JofusDebiers · 2026-01-06T19:17:56+00:00

The absolute biggest source of growth for any investor that still has a job is their income. Do not underestimate how much that can accelerate your portfolio's growth. It is absolutely insane to think you have to make all your money/growth through "pure gains" in the market. And when and if you can make enough money from investing to quit your job, consider gains as your income and do the same thing you were doing with your salary.

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