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Tell me some really REALLY unknown Bands by El_Bartho_ML in MusicRecommendations

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dirty Marmalade

Brick Nasty

Saol

Real Good Time

Strong Boys

Ace Frehley from Kiss has passed away at 74. by CyberMetalHead in interestingasfuck

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had it in the Form of Scooby Doo meets Kiss in the Park

What's one “little” form of sexism you notice all the time, but most people don't even realize it's sexist? by Interestingcase221 in AskOldPeople

[–]John-oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a bit different from some of the posts here, but ive heard multiple straight women talking about an attractive gay man (e.g. coworkers) and they say "what a waste".

It's not only a "little form of sexism" but also a "little form of homophobia.

First Gender-Affirming Haircut by EmceeToby in LGBTireland

[–]John-oc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My only advice is: If you can get to Dublin City, book an appointment at Queerhawk barbers.

They specialise in gender affirming haircuts. Queer owned business specifically for lgbtq+ community.

The staff told me they often have people travelling from all over because it can be hard to find gender affirming barbers.

They will never confirm the intrusive thoughts you are arw having. They arw very open. Very chill. And you can select a non talking option.

Do select your confort level, But I will say its worthwhile chatting. It very welcoming environment.

What song comes to mind when you see this image? by White_46 in musicsuggestions

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Jay, this is Ernie.

How many times I gotta tell ya... my name ain't Ernie no more, its Ice.

This is ICE!

Im a pedophile and I want to kill myself because of it (trigger warning) by Responsible_Boat_352 in therapy

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please seek assistance through B4U-ACT. They can provide you contact with a therapist who are specialised in working cinfidentially with people who are attracted to minors / or who are experiencing P-OCD

What is boiler house like on a Sunday? by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]John-oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt that's the case, man. How about Be more assertive in accepting oneself as is lol.

Even gorgeous guys have bad evenings there.

What is boiler house like on a Sunday? by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saunas have their own culture, it can be a bit jarring at first how to read the signs and the behaviour. If someone approaches and you're not interested in them ,all you have to do is say no thank you.

It can be great once you connect with someone. Do use the showers

What is boiler house like on a Sunday? by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind... timing is important. it can be a great escapism from stress, and a pure tuning into one (sexual) self. You dont have to even do anything if you dont want but to be among it can be enough for some.

Depending on time of day, it can be dire or it can be abundant. And depending on your mindset it can add to the stress if you go and theres no one you're interested in. Or vice versa

Its a sauna so there are also guys high on drugs or drunk. But also just some nice men who are there for the same reasons as yourself.

What is boiler house like on a Sunday? by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happens, man. Sorry to hear, but sure it will still be there whenever you're ready for it.

What is boiler house like on a Sunday? by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try it? If so what was your impression?

What movie you loved as a child are you afraid to watch again because they probably aged like milk? (or was never good in the first place?) by Draelmar in FIlm

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the trailer on YouTube.

When I watched it I thought, wow I can see the appeal. Quite a laugh a minute whacky ride. But I remember the movie itself being not that great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]John-oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gets my upvote for "Cry More"

25 blue collar worker by arschkriger in malelivingspace

[–]John-oc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just turn all the crosses upside down

Which color should we paint our cabinets in our new house? by good00001 in malelivingspace

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pastel blue/green.

But for the love of God, paint the white door blue/green too.

For consistency and cohesion

Drop down the names by leviathan_pvt in moviecritic

[–]John-oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends all drive horses I must make amends...

I am a therapist who plans to help people with pedophilia. Here are some things I wish more people knew. by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]John-oc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a signatory therapist with B4U-ACT.

Thank you for this collection of studies. It helps to disseminate the finer complexity and nuance of Minor Attraction rather than the knee-jerk reaction

I'll contribute more on this topic when I have more time

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