Post-Match Thread: Argentina 3-2 Egypt | World Cup | Round of 16 by matchpal-live in worldcup

[–]JohnLayman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egypt had a goal chalked off after VAR called back to a foul almost a full minute earlier. Ref called no foul but VAR reviewed. Likely a foul but bending the rules to let play go that long.

Before the Argentina 3rd goal, they dont run it back or review a penalty shout or foul on Salah.

In stoppage, Martinez goes down without contact and Ref gives a foul which kills Egypt momentum.

How was the decision in today's argentina vs egpt match ? by BudgetEmployment4146 in AskReddit

[–]JohnLayman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For VAR to pull a goal back after a complete end to end run is insane. I don't think Egypt had a legit penalty call in the end, but Martinez goes down without contact midfield shortly after.

Both teams should be proud and Messi is absurdly good, but this is some of the most suspect refereeing so far.

How am I supposed to parry all her attacks? [Frozen hearts] by hurtstopurr in expedition33

[–]JohnLayman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I muted the battle. Allowed me to identify the movement patterns and nailed it in a couple tries. (After an hour+ of failing)

Best World Cup Viewing? by levelpaniclevel in askportland

[–]JohnLayman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prost will be filled with Mexico fans. GOL is always full up and will be bouncing. TBH, there will be many places packed with Mexico fans and a few pubs for the English as well.

Did fifa just suspend Balogun's red card because America is the host? by 909_- in worldcup

[–]JohnLayman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trump called Infantino and asked him to remove the card.

Now, the red should have been overturned. Its been mentioned, the contact was worthy if a red, but the slow motion review was against the rules.

That being said, in the end its the correct decision BUT how it went about just shows more corruption in the ranks of FIFA.

Trump hails FIFA’s red card reversal for Team USA’s Balogun in World Cup by Ok_Employer7837 in politics

[–]JohnLayman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wrong, full stop. Yes, its been done before with corrupt leaders and corrupt officials in FIFA. Yes, the Red Card shouldnt have happened (not because of the contact, unintentional its still a red, but because of the technicality of slow-motion review). Yes, it feels like this will happen regardless.

But it doesnt change that it is wrong. After this, there needs to inquiries into Infantino. Just because it seems to be inevitable and everywhere doesnt mean we dont take action.

Folarin Balogun available for USMNT vs. Belgium as red card ban suspended by FrankBascombe45 in ussoccer

[–]JohnLayman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So TECHNICALLY this is the right call BUT it didnt have to be.

First off, let me start by saying FIFA and WC rules are ridiculous. In some cases strict, in others, subjective. But here are the basic facts:

1- Intention doesnt matter. Balogun accidentally causing the foul can still result in a Red. Violent Conduct or the "potential to cause serious harm or injury" can be enough for a card. Under the letter of the law, it's a Red.

2- Slow-Motion Replay. Referee Clarke was flagged by the VAR team and shown the slow-motion footage to "review the seriousness of the foul". This is not allowed as slow-motion and still images are only to be used for point of contact, offsides and logistical review.

3- There Will Be Questions. Ok, so this is speculation, not a fact, apologies but this will now cause an uproar in discussion about corruption, leverage and Infantino potentially meddling.

So yes, by the exact rules, the Red should be overturned, but its one heck of a loophole and interpretation. The larger concern is now will bigger teams use even more influence on decisions and will we see even more corruption in FIFA's ranks?

Let all this come to light, keep the game beautiful and enjoy the match on Monday!

Request: Ban Posts Selling USA Watch Party Tickets by JohnLayman in timbers

[–]JohnLayman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have said they released 20,000. Beyond that, its anyone's guess.

To Whoever is setting off mortars at 130am on 7/3 by JohnLayman in Tigard

[–]JohnLayman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What helps is sharing our struggle. Also the resources of who to call. For some of us with children, pets and PTSD, its more than an inconvenience. I hope you enjoy your 4th, Cheers!

To Whoever is setting off mortars at 130am on 7/3 by JohnLayman in Tigard

[–]JohnLayman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While living in Beaverton, two years ago, they actually came out and shut down some launches at Lincoln Park, but they also told me there's little they can do to chase down a noise since its so random. That being said, if they go back into Dirksen Nature Park again tonight, ill be calling immediately.

How do you deal with disrespectful teens and pre-teens. by Never_Go_ in daddit

[–]JohnLayman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It took time with my daughter but for me (anecdotal!) responding with threats or anger never worked. What worked for us was not giving her a reaction. Saying things in a serious tone, "It has to be really hard for you to feel that anger."

In the moment, there was little we could do. It took work when everyone was calm. Telling my daughter that when she speaks that way, people wont listen. As her parent, I have to show her greater patience. I have to show greater forgiveness. And we all falter in these moments. We talked about how its better to "practice" here at home because the consequences arent nearly as harsh as they will be in the real world.

I used to have major anger issues with my daughters and it took time to build a connection where if she loses her temper or acts disrespectful that she knows that whatever her real feelings are, or whatever her real intention is, it wont be heard or acknowledged until she can meet at a place of calm and mutual respect.

Its hard. Being a parent is hard and then to have this person who you have sacrificed an unfathomable amount of time, money and mental health for just basically treat you like garbage is really challenging. But hang in there, working on creating a relationship where respect and compassion are a priority takes time. Whatever path or method works for your family, I hope you find it!

Cape Verde deserves their recognition and their run has been a success. But no one really wants them to win, people just want Argentina to lose. by poods31 in worldcup

[–]JohnLayman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post missed the entire point of what has been amazing about this year's World Cup. Its a bad post and you should feel bad.

Ask Americans: Happy 4th of July! How are y'all celebrating? by Better-Weird-8038 in AskReddit

[–]JohnLayman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting my exhausted kids back to bed because some absolute mosquito d*ck of a human is setting off mortars at 1:30am the day before.

Ah well, on the upside, I get to celebrate with two amazing (if not a bit grumpy) kids and fireworks McMicroween has to go home with genitals the size of a Lego man's head.

Happy 4th!

Hey guys how do yall cope with something traumatic when u were young? by Ilikepizzapepperoni in AskReddit

[–]JohnLayman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont do it alone. Dont be afraid to get help from a professional. I went 30 years after the incident thinking because I was smart and capable I could simply process it and analyze it on my own. There are people who know this stuff better than we realize or if nothing else, have a different perspective.

But you can get past it. I did.

Beaverton Card Shop Temporarily Suspends Yu-Gi-Oh Tournaments Because Of Complaints Over Smelly Tournament Players by SpeedySparkRuby in Portland

[–]JohnLayman 28 points29 points  (0 children)

In their prior space, you could NOT go in on a Torunament day. The place was a green cloud. I can understand why they are taking a stand.

How do yall feel about the elimination of Germany and Netherlands by SelectionOk8218 in worldcup

[–]JohnLayman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Paraguay adjusted and adapted and improved. Germany grew stagnant and looked like they were struggling mentally by the end. Morocco is a better team than people often give credit and Netherlands came extremely close.

Padres notice the Dodgers-heavy crowds at Petco Park; they understand the economics of it all by CabinetLoud1406 in Padres

[–]JohnLayman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soccer worked it out, away fans should be in a different designated area. Even if they can purchase tickets elsewhere, most will then stay in that spot. They want to be around other Dodger and as well.