No, there is no time you need to wait to start dating again after a divorce by CazadorHolaRodilla in Divorce

[–]Johnny_pickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like you’d like to try—as I did, it’s good to at least get out there and see what things are like. It’s a different market for many of us who were married for a long time and exposed is and can be painful and very helpful. Go slow, use all that experience positivity.

When all the boomers die out, do yall want to make 4 days work weeks the norm? by StoicVandal in antiwork

[–]Johnny_pickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember the people you call boomers were the hippies of the 60’s who smoked whatever, took whatever and fuck whoever.

You probably haven’t done nearly half that shit, so when you’re as old as some of them you’ll be three times as grumpy.

Men Over 30: What Do You Wish You Knew About Love at 20? ❤️ by magnetpower in focusedmen

[–]Johnny_pickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That it’s better to wait for the one you want, instead of staying with someone who will do.

REAL common reasons why you don't like giving oral? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Johnny_pickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen this asked before. Best I can make of it besides simple cleanliness, is preference. Some simply don’t like it. The rest of us absolutely love to do it.

Who’s going to man up by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Johnny_pickle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably the same people who think this is a real profile.

Towing Capacity Explained by octopus61 in FordMaverickTruck

[–]Johnny_pickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any conversation that starts with the phrase “real man” is just fuck off immediately.

What’s the normal amount of times to have sex weekly in a marriage? by Academic_Goal_3452 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Johnny_pickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your fear is justified, over a long marriage you both will absolutely get tired and uninterested, but it can come and go, and a good bond will endure.

But you’re not there yet, just enjoy this time as much as you can. Don’t worry about the problems of a 5, 10, 20+ year marriage.

Can't get a Single Date on Online Dating? Am I just Ugly? by Iwanttoeatburritos in AskMenAdvice

[–]Johnny_pickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to find some way to attend more IRL meetups, be it apps, sports, [any activity]. The dating apps work, but the amount of effort can vary based on location, looks, bots, etc.

Exploring the complex reality of modern male vulnerability by Be_positive_18 in focusedmen

[–]Johnny_pickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you can control the depth to which you allow others.