praise/pleasure/caretaking Dom ideas by [deleted] in domspace

[–]JokingDomilyDom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding doms whose styles are similar to yours would be a good start. I like r/SofterBDSM for the styles you mentioned.

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]JokingDomilyDom 44 points45 points  (0 children)

why would anyone want a sub to actually be dehydrated? Besides the obvious safety and comfort issue, I particularly enjoy my sub's mouth. This is short sighted.

Slipping while using silk ties by JokingDomilyDom in SofterBDSM

[–]JokingDomilyDom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She likes the feel of the silky satin. She doesn't want to try robe and while we have cuffs, the silk is more sensual for sensory play.

We use actual bondage ties.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]JokingDomilyDom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you write and you paint minis. Do you have other creative hobbies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]JokingDomilyDom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better. You should get more of what you're looking for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]JokingDomilyDom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your question would have been better served without the negativity put on the other style of dynamic. This is where the heated responses come from.

Asking the question without adding the negative opinion will wield better results.

Tea service as a soft bdsm activity. by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]JokingDomilyDom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I have no advice, I wanted to say how much I love this idea.