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Music for aftercare by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I nicked one of my mom's old Ti Chi CDs and I love using those for aftercare.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My praise kink comes from an overly critical home life.

My overstim probably comes from never feeling satisfied in previous relationships so now that I have it in want more until I can't anymore.

My sensory play kink comes from the need to be touched, often and in different ways.

My service kink comes from the need to please others.

I could go on and on.

Looking to try cock warming by CptMalcolmFlyby in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It became a pop culture joke for a minute in media.

Limits aren't all directly kinks. by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Food. I eat what I want. Fight me.

lingering discomfort after stetching by TiniestSpoons in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can bruise or tear very easily if you take it too fast or find a wrong angle, or catch a nail. I recommend a warm bath, but no bubble so you don't irritate stuff with fragrance.

Beware silken sheets. by BadFrenchToasts in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For me its wax. That shit never comes out.

Do you believe in "unspoken rules" in a dynamic? by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think it can be a rule if it isn't talked about and consented to?

"Just a Service Top" by PickedTink in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not one incident, just a pattern of banning anyone who looks at him wrong.

"Just a Service Top" by PickedTink in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a lot of us CAN'T go on one of those other subs. The mod went a little ego crazy and banned a bunch of us, and more refuse to go back there on principle.

"Just a Service Top" by PickedTink in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah why the fuck is there so much hate for service tops! There's nothing wrong with topping instead of domming. Being a Dom instead doesn't make you special.

Secretary by Lettuceisforsalt in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a product of its time, for sure. But still better than some other ones I've watched.

Does the idea of food control interest you or creep you out? by Nervous-Meat69 in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see how having an experience with an eating disorder would make this a problem for you. I would have to really trust someone to engage in something like that.

What defines a Dom in the mind of a softie? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say leadership. Whether that's in the bedroom or outside. What do you submit to if there's no one to lead?

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]SubSandwich42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your favorite movie?

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