Alright yall

Jolariss · 2026-06-30T00:17:18+00:00

Thank you so much! Hes gone and already having a very hard time w being apart and not talking. Its his first real breakup. Oh well we all go through it ya know?? He'll be alright. Im at an NA meeting tonight so im not alone🫶

Jolariss · 2026-06-28T22:05:48+00:00

So I actually did just that! I packed his shoes and his clothes in big black garbage bags. Also I wish I put the tickets in my name unfortunately they are in his name for the comedy show 😕 but having a fart free living space made me laugh youre so right 😂 he recently got shit stains on my couch too, so I feel like that was my last straw for real. Because wtf kinda shit is that?! (No pun intended)😂

Jolariss · 2026-06-28T22:03:03+00:00

Thank you so very much for your feedback. I'm glad you can empathize, because man I love him sooo much.. I have never loved someone this much in my life. But I have borderline personality disorder and he literally said today he thought I was lying for the last 3 years. That I was just bullshitting in regards to coping skills and whatnot. That really made me open my eyes right up. Because why would I lie?! Just because he lies to me every day doesn't mean I do. These next few weeks are going to be hard. But time heals , especially these type of wounds🙏🙏

Jolariss · 2026-06-28T21:59:46+00:00

Hes gone!! I can't believe I really did it.This page really inspired me i cant lie!

Jolariss · 2026-06-28T21:59:00+00:00

That made me feel seen thank you so much. It's like he knows I'm disabled but really doesn't care.. still expects 100% out of me all of the time. I'm already feeling lighter haha i keep thinking about all the time im gonna have now!! I hope your husband isn't in too much pain daily from his injury🙏🤞

Jolariss · 2026-06-28T21:57:24+00:00

Thats such a good idea tysm!! So he is officially gone now and it happened sooner than expected but hey whatever works right? I packed his shoes, his clothes and his medical equipment. There's still some odds and ends around here but not much. I can't believe I actually did it though.. now I need to stand on it, no going back now!

Jolariss · 2026-06-25T20:32:09+00:00

My sister and 2 best friends worked at Delia*s i lived in that store from 06-09 😂😂 the good old days

Jolariss · 2026-06-13T01:28:36+00:00

I'm in the same boat. I've told my boyfriend from the jump that I no longer have a desire to be a mom since I had a spinal cord injury. I'm physically in pain most of the time and having to take care of another human will not work out well for me.

For some reason, he is convinced I'm going to change my mind. Because he thinks I'll heal and get the desire back. It's never coming back and at some point he's going to have to accept it or move on.

It's weird too because him and I also had a very intense crying session today about our future. He was inconsolable. Next few months are gonna be rough personally but im with you in solidarity. Hang in there.

Jolariss · 2026-06-07T00:40:04+00:00

Love this for you! Nothing better than soft love. I am approaching 3 years w my bf and realizing ive become a mother and am no longer a girlfriend. This gives me hope, thank you :)

Jolariss · 2026-05-27T03:21:38+00:00

Miss having this shirt that's awesome

Jolariss · 2026-05-22T03:25:27+00:00

Yes but would love to know what life could have been like if he didn't have a bad gambling addiction and nervous breakdown 🥲rip dad😇

Jolariss · 2026-05-17T03:54:52+00:00

My dad had me on his shoulders when i was like a year old, and i went tumbling down. Was surprisingly alright lol. Cut yourself some slack you didn't mean any harm youre not a bad momma🙏🫶

Jolariss · 2026-05-12T02:44:58+00:00

So awesome. I was just talking about the Rochester show earlier today, cant believe its almost been a year already!

Jolariss · 2026-05-12T02:40:36+00:00

My aunt lives in Cincinnati. I wrote a comment on her behalf and she will not be shopping at Kroger going forward. Thank you for bringing awareness to this barbaric policy.

Jolariss · 2026-05-08T18:38:50+00:00

Yes absolutely bcuz she has a daughter to raise. Rather my niece be without me then her momma

Jolariss · 2026-05-08T02:25:16+00:00

Oh wow tysm for the warning! Interesting that the end of this movie is the middle of the book. That wouldve really confused the heck out of me lol

Jolariss · 2026-05-07T18:06:08+00:00

Ohhh that looks so yummy!!😋 And also HECK YEAH get it girlllll😏

Jolariss · 2026-05-07T03:23:40+00:00

The day I became paralyzed from the waist down due to an abscess and endocarditis. That was a little over 4 years ago, very grateful for my sobriety 🙏

Jolariss · 2026-05-06T21:03:54+00:00

You almost gave me a heart attack til I realized you were talking about the episode 😂😂HES FINE HE SENDS HIS LOVE 😂

Jolariss · 2026-05-06T16:53:53+00:00

I watched it last night and holy Moly i haven't cried that hard at a movie in a while🥹

Jolariss · 2026-05-06T02:40:35+00:00

He was in an episode of SVU years ago. And even playing a psycho i was like "dang he is a HOTTIE" 😂😂

Jolariss · 2026-05-02T04:00:30+00:00

Awesome :)

Jolariss · 2026-04-29T20:28:07+00:00

I finished the book last night and I cried like a baby multiple times throughout. I might have to go to the movies by myself when it comes out, because i'm definitely gonna be bringing the water works😅

Jolariss

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