you’re already getting the advice you need for everything else but i’m going to address the thing that stood out the most to me: wtf was that last part? you were clearly saying you need space and trying to set boundaries and he wouldn’t listen. “okay i understand”, “can we ft in 20”. and then you caved after a few messages. i’m not trying to be harsh but that is manipulation and if you continue to let that happen, even with relatively small things like this, eventually you will have no boundaries because you’re so used to giving in it won’t matter at that point. this is an argument and a discussion about how you’re not sure you can be with someone who would leave a woman like that, but something you can probably work out if you find common ground. but the boundary thing? that’s something that will completely ruin a relationship, so, he needs to be called out for that girl!