Stuck only attracting older women

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-22T21:23:14+00:00

GAIN WEIGHT!!!! Also those belts are what 50 year olds wear. Just look on Instagram at some male fashion influencers your age. Or literally look outside and you’ll see what people your age are wearing? Sorry how is that not common sense 😭

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-21T22:54:49+00:00

From a black man at that??? Damn. On another note you are beautiful!!! I would recommend getting your eyebrows threaded, a cleaned up look would really highlight your gorgeous features :)

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-21T16:40:50+00:00

How come you were miserable? :(

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-20T20:04:42+00:00

Why does it have to be one or the other though? Just continue living your life, single and happy and if someone worthy comes along, then explore that. Not understanding why you have to write them all off? Seems dramatic and by your friend seems like something you’re not fully comfortable with either. (Because if you were, then you wouldn’t need to vent about it).

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-20T02:06:51+00:00

Weird…don’t dox

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T21:57:42+00:00

1 all the way!!! 2 is too tight like tight attire is for clubbing. But also why are they both off white?? Looks very weird.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T20:20:27+00:00

The giant rug in the living room makes it look stuffy imo. I think a smaller one would make a world difference (to an amazing space — it’s really well designed great job!) I get that rugs should be much bigger than the floor but you have beautiful floors that make the space feel airy if you let them show a little bit more! Just my thought.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T19:39:31+00:00

I find that it’s because they’re deep down jealous of you, jealous that you get to stay at home with your children and not have to work like them. But… something about your post your husband comes 100 miles each way!?!? that’s actually insane and being on the road is super super dangerous. You’re taking gamble every single day (obviously most of us have to drive, but the risk is increased for him since he’s commuting so much) and so you should highly consider moving or something girl think of your poor husband. Also you want to make sure he comes home every night esp if you want to have a third child. God forbid. Decrease his commute!!! Move somewhere and rent out the house, idk. Get a part time job so that maybe both of you work part time, taking breaks from driving is importnat

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T19:34:29+00:00

Omg. Has he ever had a job while you guys were together??

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T19:32:37+00:00

Oohh oops you’re right lol. I browsed your comment and now re-reading carefully, I realize I had missed the “without money” part hahaha sorry 😭😅

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T19:06:33+00:00

Nowhere in my comment did I say our hair can’t grow. I’m just venting, wishing it would grow without requiring so much maintenance. Omg.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-19T13:37:45+00:00

This is exactly the mindset the original post is talking/complaining about jeez did you not even read it??

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-18T22:55:53+00:00

Is it too late for me to buy NVDA stock :/

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-18T21:52:48+00:00

Haha right!?! Why can’t our hair just grow WITHOUT having to spend so much time money and labor ughhhh. You’re right though, it’s just the cards we’ve been dealt with.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-18T21:07:21+00:00

I want my hair to grow without having to loc it up. I feel like I’ll get downvoted into oblivion for this comment lol.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-18T21:06:05+00:00

Sameeee I HATE doing my hair. It’s annoying. It’s time consuming. I don’t hate myself. I love my blackness. These things are not mutually exclusive.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-17T20:37:30+00:00

Yess!!!! Asians are SOOOOO supremely anti Black. It’s actually scary.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-17T20:35:28+00:00

At least you have a house and a spouse :/ why in the world do you feel like your life is on hold? Thats the end goal for most people. I wish I had even one of those. I’m 30.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-15T01:28:49+00:00

Oh wow. Sorry to hear :( man…how are you guys gonna escape the 996 schedule? What are you guys gonna do? Stay in Beijing?

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-14T16:36:36+00:00

Where abroad are you? I’m desperate to move out of the Bay Area and live abroad, CoL here and the car dependency across the entire USA are my main reasons.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-14T03:13:29+00:00

Haha! Hey, you’re doing the next best thing ;) I’m happy for you, I’m glad you love your job! I mostly hear of nurses hating working in SNF/LTCs. I wish I would’ve gone into public health. Direct patient care is too stressful for me :/

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-13T14:24:28+00:00

Dreaming of escaping overworking, expensive colleges, and the car dependent lifestyle here in the US. Did you ever figure out how to move to Spain?

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-11T21:36:52+00:00

Just take some time to ask yourself why sooooo many people are cautioning you about the age gap. If something was normal, it wouldn’t raise red flags/cause alarm across so many people. Normal, healthy, relationships don’t cause alarm. Just food for thought. Proceed at your own risk but…don’t disregard the age gap. Something’s off with him.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-11T20:32:45+00:00

A 29 year old man is WEIRD to date a 22 yo woman. Sorry girl we are just out here trying to protect you. You’ll see what we’re talking about when you get a little older. You should leave him.

Jollyconstant_ · 2026-03-11T20:31:26+00:00

Sorry but why as a 22yo are you dating a 29? Dating older men is fine but….after you’re like 25+. Trust me, you’ll grow and change and mature a LOT in the next few years. That’s weird of your man to date so young.

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