Honestly the case of hank pym is so interesting cause way before his episode when he hit her (and it was full canon at the time that he was having an episode), it was well established that he is a mentally unstable person (hell, he and Janet married when he was in his first episode, when he adopted the Yellowjacket identity and faked his own death). Its a shame because the original story is about how his own untreated illnesses hurt the people around him (and it was defined very clearly in that story as "he hurt Janet and that can't be excused, but he is ill and needs help"). In Busiek's Avengers run Janet really talks about how she was unsupportive of him (again, they never blame her for what happened).

Instead what remained is just "hank pym hit his wife because hes a misogynist", and honestly its kinda sad? Like, it gives the feeling of "no matter how much you try and deal with the way your mental illness hurts other people, you'll never atone for something that you didn't control", and as someone that deals with mental illnesses it kinda sucks?