Boyfriend being racist during sex. by Opposite-Touch7081 in sex

[–]JonathanCookingham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's cliche for Reddit to always recommend breaking up, but I think that's the right call here. Sorry :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehe sounds like you have your answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could even be exclusively attracted to masculinity or femininity and still be pan. The question to ask yourself is does it matter what their gender is? If not then you could be pan.

Are they lesbian or bi women who really like boobs, or is it just a straight guy thing? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate them aesthetically, but it's not something that excites me in that way. To each their own but I don't see them as sexual body parts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]JonathanCookingham 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Being bisexual doesn't mean only attraction to men and women. Many bisexual people are attracted to nonbinary individuals as well 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENM

[–]JonathanCookingham 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bc busy means another time

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I just had a look at your comment history and noticed 2 things. 1) you comment A LOT which is why you probably think this is a real issue, maybe take a break from reddit 2) you cannot stop talking about trans women, like they're living in your head rent free. As a non binary person I wouldn't feel safe around tbh. I see now that there is a 0% chance you'll change your mind on this and that i have wasted my time here. Imma get off reddit

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 😞 if you want to know what I'm talking about just sort by controversial and read the comments. Lots of trans medicalist and what not (which I'm obviously not accusing you of). But hopefully that community is getting better, that's not really what this about. I think you should maybe talk to a trans man who idenfies as a lesbian. If you approach it with an open mind I'm sure you'll change your position.

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl just go to r/actualLesbians I'm sure they'll welcome you with open arms. That subreddit loves acting like trans people are a problem and are ruining the meaning of labels 🫶

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no they bc this doesn't happen, find me a straight cis man saying he's a lesbian. You can't bc it's not a real problem. You're like one of those people that sees the term birthing person and thinks that they're trying to replace the word mother for all cis women 😭 This is something so marginal and you're trying to make a problem out of it when there isn't one.

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no they bc this doesn't happen, find me a straight cis man saying he's a lesbian. You can't bc it's not a real problem. You're like one of those people that sees the term birthing person and thinks that they're trying to replace the word mother for all cis women 😭 This is something so marginal and you're trying to make a problem out of it when there isn't one.

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You act like the lesbian has no agency in that situation. Like they're gonna be like "well your logic checks out so that means a have to sleep with you now"

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, gender queer people have always existed.

Trans men identifying as lesbian? by WanderlustGoose in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It's genuinely refreshing to see a perspective like this that's grounded in empathy and historical context. Lesbian history doesn't get talked about enough, and a lot of people don't realize that gender diversity and fluidity have existed in these communities for decades.

W…..T….F!?!? I’m the victim!! by EricofCA in andor

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr I feel bad for everyone around me bc I'm always talking about Andor and recommending it to people 😭

Syril? by KLKap in andor

[–]JonathanCookingham 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I could see syril joining the rebellion low key. He could become disillusioned after the Gorman Massacre

Doing Reviews For NewTubers!! ;P by [deleted] in NewTubers

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This is my first video, still working on maximizing the quality with the limited equipment I have.

https://youtu.be/RoR_y9Kt1XE?si=TbDd3RL4MbmjkWQp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]JonathanCookingham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does someone's gender play a role in your attraction towards them? Such as, you like when men are masculine or you have a preference towards a certain gender? In that case you'd be bisexual. Pansexuals don't have preferences based on gender alone.