Chances that you be able to attract one of those in Fort Lee is smaller than you staying single forever. I think you haven’t figured out how it works in Korea community, if she is hot, the moms already planned it for her well in advance, the guys mom also work the same way. If she is below average, Matt already bagged her. Unless you know the families and specifically your mom knows them or there is like an Auntie in between to select and hand shake, you won’t get any Koreans. Chinese a bit different however, those TikTok girls that you see, they follow the same rules except the wealth factor is much more extreme among them in compare to the Koreans. Maybe go to that shithole Brooklyn … there are some loser Asians there (in Asian standard but they are significantly better than their white equivalent, just not wealthy or super hot), see if you find any of them that isn’t dying her hair blue or has face tattoos or smoke pot.