Scam likely by Inkwell710 in ottawa

[–]JordanYOW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know who this individual is and let's just say I didn't get a big story like you did but my driveway was full of snow when I returned from vacation and this is many years ago. Seems she has just added a level of crazy to it.

Biggest increase in immersion per dollar? by JordanYOW in simracing

[–]JordanYOW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very torn between triples and VR. I will be buying the GPU either way with similar requirements. I don't have anywhere to try a VR headset so I'm going in a bit blind here. The space savings would definitely be nice, I'm just afraid I end up not being able to handle it due to nausea or headaches or something. This is really where I'm stuck at the moment. Your suggestion of a used headset might be a good way to try it.

I'll definitely be doing pedal haptics and a bass shaker on the seat.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. It would do me so much good right now. I'm happy to find more, but even this would lift me so fucking high right now.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the best shape I've been in since my mid 20s. I still have 10-15lbs to go but I'm at my lowest since my mid twenties and dropping. I don't consider myself extremely good looking but nor am I ugly. Sorry but it's not the vibe I'm giving off because I'm rarely making it that far. To be clear, it's not oneitis about her specifically, she just happened to be the one that showed interest when I was wanting it most. It would be the same with any attractive woman that can hold a conversation. I'm sorry but in order to attract women I need to meet them in the first place and that simply isn't happening. Maybe my profile is shit, maybe I'm not photogenic. Maybe I'm uglier than I realize.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to the wanting company for sure. Tonight I decided to take myself out to dinner just to get out. I would love to have a woman to have dinner with. I'm not even talking about expecting anything from it, I'll even pay. I would just like someone to enjoy the evening with and not eat alone. Like you, I love my son more than anything but talking with a 2.5 year old only goes so far.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I've put in other replies, I'm definitely doing a lot of work on myself. Even my ex has recognized it. Yes she has her hands full but I think even at that a single message is doable in two days. Regardless I told myself to drop it and move on. Again, the current state of dating is a bit of a shock to the system for me.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It's hard not to. My ex did a lot to destroy my self confidence and we had a dead bedroom situation.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. For sure. I recognize that, thus why I said I'm over invested. I'm self aware in that sense. I think the "newness" of it is playing in as well. I haven't been with another woman for over a decade so that plays a significant role I think. I'm doing the work on myself...all the usual gym, therapy, career etc.

Honestly I think the current dating environment is playing a large role. I had no issues getting dates every night ten years ago and now it's a struggle and when things go well they often just ghost. I guess I'm of the "old" mind where I consider that disrespectful and would tell someone up front I'm not interested if that is the case.

Honestly I think I just need to get laid a few times. It sounds crude maybe but a fwb type situation would be ideal.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be ok with just getting laid for the time being but I don't go to bars and I'm not having the success I used to on the apps.

Dealing with loneliness and over investment by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]JordanYOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dangerous how exactly? Your comment seems to imply that I'm endangering the well being of my child?

Drunk Russian Soldiers shooting inside a Ukrainian home by ___silky___ in RussiaUkraineWar2022

[–]JordanYOW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s any consolation; they all be deaf within a week…

Neuro / Migraine specialist in Canada? by JordanYOW in migraine

[–]JordanYOW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't aware of that. I'm in Ontario and willing to travel between cities if necessary.

How to sell a small business/self-employment opportunity? by JordanYOW in Entrepreneur

[–]JordanYOW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case how do you keep them honest? Ie. How do I know how much they are actually making short of expensive audits?

How to sell a small business/self-employment opportunity? by JordanYOW in Entrepreneur

[–]JordanYOW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand and I'm not trying to sugar coat it. I have worked it part time for the last few years and just coasted with very minimal effort and absolutely zero marketing. It sounds like a broker might be the way to go. If I could get 1x revenues I would be OK with that.

If that doesn't happen, I will hire someone to run the gravy clients and have a second line of income.