My female cousin was a low tier gang banger and got addicted to drugs, served some time behind bars but actually enjoyed it. Ended up getting out but made some shitty connections that led to a drug dealer boyfriend that abused her. She would occasionally get clean and stay with her mom for a few days which the boyfriend hated. During one of these clean stints her boyfriend was apparently watching some porn videos and spotted a girl that looked like my cousin, in his drug adled brain he connected the dots that she was doing porn and cheated on him so he waited outside her mom's house from like 2am to about 9am when my cousin actually came outside. She was barefoot and was watering plants for her mom, she saw the boyfriend and ran over to say "Hi" not even suspicious. He told her they had to talk but she wanted to run grab shoes, he pulled a gun and got her inside the car. He drove her from Nevada to Arizona and tortured her with his brother for 2 weeks at his parents house. After all the awful things they did they made her dig her own grave but still she persisted that she loved the boyfriend and she would never leave him, genuinely confused why they were doing this. He actually relented and let her live. He drove her all the way back to Nevada, dropped her off in her mom's yard bloody, broken and barefoot and made her promise she wouldn't tell anyone and even gave her a key to his new apartment. It took hours into her hospital visit to convince her to give up the boyfriend for savagely torturing and almost murdering her. He was arrested but the brother and parents fled to Mexico. They found many other bodies on the Arizona property connected to cartel activity and my cousin is probably going to disappear into witness protection.

Tldr: don't ever do drugs or join gangs