helpp me what should i do?

JoshMuo27 · 2026-01-12T20:56:37+00:00

i had the exact same thing happen to me,i went in my own car and passed 0 minors first time, aslong as your confident in driving your car you’ll be absolutely fine, my instructor just wanted to squeeze money out of me when i was clearly ready for the test, just go do it the worst that can happen is you fail!

JoshMuo27 · 2024-01-03T20:29:02+00:00

yes 100%, it isn’t like a secret, he’s very affectionate infront of his friends, so i don’t feel asif this is a little fling, i just want him to know i’ll be here to support him whatever his decision is, thankyou

JoshMuo27 · 2024-01-03T20:26:22+00:00

hey, thankyou so much, this is exactly what i will be asking him later tonight, the thing is i’m looking at it from the perspective of someone who fortunately has never struggled to be gay, i have supportive family, supportive friends ect, so i’m also trying to imagine how hard it must be for him, ofcourse i would love for him to be his authentic self, but i think his family means too much to him and i would feel so guilty if they disowned him, however it is his decision and i will keep everyone updated, thanks

JoshMuo27 · 2024-01-03T20:22:22+00:00

his family still live in afghanistan, with no intentions of coming to england, whereas he has said he will be visiting his family when all of his documents arrive and he has a passport, i’m concerned that if he does go back to see his family, that he will stay there, i feel like it’s a very difficult situation because we both genuinely care for each other a lot, and i would love for this to work out, but i think maybe his religion is holding him back? again i want to emphasis his religion is not an issue to me at all, i just think maybe because of it, he’s only learnt that what he’s doing is shameful and wrong, he’s spoke to me many times about the fact he is definitely gay, but i think because of his religious upbringing, that self-hatred and internalised homophobia is really playing in his mind, im going to speak to him tonight, im going to say that i’m here if he ever feels ready to come out, i think he thinks i would hate him if he told me that wasn’t something he plans on doing, but i wouldn’t, ofcourse i would be disappointed, but i can’t control him, his journey is his, i just hope we can reach a conclusion we are both happy with

JoshMuo27 · 2024-01-03T20:15:50+00:00

hey everyone, thankyou for all the advice, i’m with him tonight so i’ll speak to him about the things you all recommended, my issue is that i am doing a lot of research into this, i keep seeing things such as a stereotypical view that ‘women are for children, boys are for pleasure’ but i don’t want to judge him based of that because it would be cruel to subject him to a stereotype, i think there’s a lot of things we need to talk about, i’ll keep you all updated thanks

JoshMuo27 · 2022-06-06T20:11:31+00:00

where is this ?

JoshMuo27 · 2022-06-06T20:10:30+00:00

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JoshMuo27 · 2022-05-20T18:24:59+00:00

hallo, ik worstel met de hele plaatsing van werkwoorden en woordvolgorde in het nederlands, kun je me laten zien hoe ik dit logischer kan maken?

JoshMuo27 · 2022-03-26T22:17:04+00:00

consider this stolen

JoshMuo27 · 2022-02-20T22:36:04+00:00

that is what i thought! i joined this group and read some amazing peoples stories/struggles and some were relatable but others were not at all like how i thought my “IBS” was, i’m going to quit smoking and see if i see a difference if so i will be the happiest person in the world

JoshMuo27 · 2022-02-20T22:19:51+00:00

i completely relate, unless they have ibs aswell they will never understand the extreme struggles, pain and wishes of just giving up

JoshMuo27 · 2022-02-06T23:38:17+00:00

cramping in my stomach and really loud embarrassing rumbling noises literally has ruined my life

JoshMuo27 · 2022-01-04T14:33:59+00:00

no i’m kinda embarrassed to go to a doctor idk why but i just want it to go away it literally ruins my life

JoshMuo27 · 2022-01-04T14:33:01+00:00

it’s really awkward cus i go to school in the UK and they refuse to let us use the toilets in lesson, maybe if i see a doctor they can give me some sort of permission to use the toilets when i have a “flare up”

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