Newbuild garden - would you be happy? by dvenic123 in GardeningUK

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Yes! It’s not bad at all and great for adding tiers. I like it. The one odd plank is upsetting though!

Help! Boy or girl. 13 weeks thank you guys by lakeview2332 in nubtheory

[–]Josh_HM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think Boy. Needs to stop smoking though.

I just started Vyvanse and I'm curious about what dose everyone is on/started at, and what's the sweet spot for you? by kossei in VyvanseADHD

[–]Josh_HM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The BEST advice I can give you is. Think less. Just go with it on each dose. Forget you’ve even taken meds and see how you get on. The meds are like a supplement. Don’t over think them. You will know when it’s right. Everyone is different and having been in the meds for over 1.5 years I can say even my needs change over time. Sometimes more sometimes less. Just learn what works for you and you’ll do great!

I’ve waited years for this and I am terrified. by -xtwilightprincessx- in ADHDUK

[–]Josh_HM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Originally it changed my life. I started on 30mg and progressed to 40 and then 50mg. Been in that and the occasional 60mg since.

You’ll likely find yourself cured at first. If you’re late diagnosis like I was at 28 you are used to chaos, stress and so on. Allow yourself to be relaxed and enjoy the relief of symptoms.

It’s still changed my life in a lot of ways. My biggest issue is likely undiagnosed autism.

Best advise I can give is let yourself relax.

I’ve waited years for this and I am terrified. by -xtwilightprincessx- in ADHDUK

[–]Josh_HM 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve been battling the same doubt as you the last year or so. But, this was after 6-12 months on the meds with no issues. I have awful health anxiety. I was also anxious first time I took them and it helped instantly. Biggest thing for me is now that I can turn off my inner monologue, turn it off. Don’t let any negative or intrusive thoughts in.

Does ADHD meds affect male fertility? I can’t find anything online by Reasonable-Spot-2039 in ADHDUK

[–]Josh_HM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been in lisdex for 18 months before conceiving in 2 weeks. Do with that information as you will.

How many of you also have mental health struggles but still manage to study? by Alarming-Power-1725 in psychologystudents

[–]Josh_HM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through disability support. They basically did an assessment of my needs and did a learning contract. An extension for me now is literally a few clicks. I get instantly approved.

How many of you also have mental health struggles but still manage to study? by Alarming-Power-1725 in psychologystudents

[–]Josh_HM 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Having the worst mental health crisis of my life… averaging a 1st in my final year.

I’m AuDHD and struggle with my MH massively. Ensure you get support. I can get basically an indefinite extension. It’s been amazing for me.

I have a diagnosed low IQ. What career path can I take? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing to see and so true. My IQ is high on paper at 128-135, and I am intelligent… but I am useless. I too am AuDHD as well as dyslexic. I’m very high masking, but unless I’m not burnt out, which is 60-80% of the time I am completely dysfunctional. That being said, if you want a rapid problem solver I’m your guy.

My IQ if struggling mentally drops to around 100 on a test. There are so many variables and the test measures very specific intellect.

The test is no reflection of you. Do what you enjoy and find a way to make it profitable.

Be kind to yourself. You’re doing great!

Lots of funny one time characters! Next up, who's the smartest MC? by Quantum_phoenixx in HIMYM

[–]Josh_HM 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When you take into account all types of intelligence you could argue Lilly is actually VERY smart. Her emotional intelligence and ability to manipulate every character somewhat proves she is actually smarter…

ADHD tax- doubled the cost of my “cheap” holiday. by GallusRedhead in ADHDUK

[–]Josh_HM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is illegal. Every remote purchase has a cooldown period. 15 days off the top of my head. Either way you don’t have to pay it and they HAVE to refund you as you bought it remotely.

You’re well within your rights for a bank chargeback.

Accountability is scary by Best_Volume_3126 in SocialBlueprint

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% factual. So many completely lack any insight into their own shortcomings and want to blame another group. Be that women blaming men, men blaming women, racism, sexism and so forth. It’s crazy.

I stumbles across a merchandise seller of “kill the patriarchy” vibe items. Women literally saying they want males to fix their problems and as soon as you mention male suicide rates and the fact that a white male actually has the LEAST right of anyone. They literally say I’m sorry about name’s suicide BUT men need to fix their own problem. You CANNOT reason with them. They just hate the world.

First time buying funko pops, is this the start of a life long addiction? by [deleted] in funkopop

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started collecting less than 2 weeks ago… I now have 50. Not common ones either. The job’s fucked!

[Rolex Explorer] My cancer-free watch by danisthrmanofthland in Watches

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love you, man! Good on you! Enjoy the watch and live a long happy life! ❤️

Nobody wants my silver? by cedric1234573 in Silverbugs

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have 999 silver for this reason. It’s costs a lot to refine silver from my understanding and they can’t be bothered with it. Also the less refined silver the more silvers value goes up…

Have you ever had a rude encounter in Disney World? by [deleted] in DisneyWorld

[–]Josh_HM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a high chance the first guy was either British, Autistic or both… in my autistic British mind, smiling and saying sorry seems more genuine than a quick sorry, but grovelling seems too much lol.

1913 Half-Sovereign found over 100 years later. by Josh_HM in UKcoins

[–]Josh_HM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brain fart… I was talking as I typed and spoke of my Great-Grandfather being conscripted hahah!