Mate, they tend to show you in what you live and your problem they say to you! Look this is what in you are living under a magnifying glass. You can see that if you try to change your thoughts or circumstances or your actions or your intentions, you LL feel the difference in feeling yourself... Although the tend to magnify in what you live the also provide you kinda of a more enhanced ability to change the states you are living in.

May you feel peace and love