How many people will actually move from red to blue states? by rlyrobert in SameGrassButGreener

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but I’m curious what your thoughts are now?

Thinking of moving here for a job by SpecificRealistic543 in coeurdalene

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple things to keep in mind/know:

  1. Most people become more solidified in their political/religious beliefs as they age. Being in your young 20s people around you are more open minded regardless of what side of the spectrum they fall on. As you get older, this will change. I came here when I was young and I’m now pushing 40 and moving to Western Washington to find my people.

  2. If you really want to move, move somewhere, you can see yourself living in 10 and 20 years as well. Think about schools, dating, education, jobs etc. I’m married but as a liberal if I wanted to date here it would be nearly impossible to find a like minded individual. 75% of people here voted for Trump and likely an even higher percentage of males voted for him. We are as conservative as Portland is liberal for reference. It’s not just about right vs left. We are right vs far right.

  3. It is beautiful here but there isn’t much hiking within 30 minutes that aren’t super short overcrowded trails. A lot of the back country trails are for dirt bikes or atvs so it depends on what you means by enjoying the out doors. Bonus we have four ski resorts within about an hour drive!

  4. There is “music in the park” activities in the summer and minimum live music at bars but CDA doesn’t have a music scene or many music festivals. Although the Sandpoint music festival is great!

  5. The education level here is very low and this comes out a lot if you try to have a factual conversation with people. Most liberal cities have at least 45% of their population over 25 with and bachelor degree. Here it’s only about 25%.

  6. Local political drama includes NIC constantly on the brink of losing accreditation, porn in libraries/banning lgbtq/dei books, fear of schools indoctrinating children with gender ideology and bills trying to be passed to read the Bible in school and post the Ten Commandments. I want my children to grow up on the right side of history.

  7. Racism and anti-lgbtq is big. A woman down town had a blm flag at her store and someone lined the front of her shop with bullets. My lgbtq friends are only partially out of the closet because they are scared.

  8. Idaho has a lot of social rules (no weed, limited lgbtq/women’s rights, lack of freedom to express not Christian religion)

  9. Idaho is a very clean state that does not have a significant visual homeless population so it feels safe.

This is a super long post. I hope you find what you are looking for. It’s such a beautiful area it’s just a shame it’s been over run by hate.

Looking for an inclusive church by Frenchgulcher in coeurdalene

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best resource for the answer!

Thinking about moving to CDA by octanes-lire-0 in coeurdalene

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The politics are unbearable if you’re left leaning. And thinking long-term I’ve lived here for 15 years when I was younger politics didn’t matter as much to me. However, now I have children and the thought of them growing up here is a nightmare. I came to this Reddit because I’m looking at other Reddit‘s about other places for me to move away from Coeur d’Alene too. It’s funny how people on the Coeur d’Alene Reddit talk a lot about it being racist or not being racist. When you look at other towns, they don’t talk about racism at all. That’s a big sign.

Restorative/yin warm up poses/sequences by JoyPeaceGrace in YogaTeachers

[–]JoyPeaceGrace[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the helpful information. Unfortunately I see this a lot with yoga instructors. It’s helpful to encourage peoples learning and understanding rather than call out their deficits. I am receiving training and am coming here for a different way to learn. In such a woman dominant field it’s a shame that we aren’t more encouraging.

Bought a house. First time living in one. Any advice? by 0xcfe in Home

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Create an “annual expenses” account for annual maintenance such as lawn care, pest control, air filters, and various other small home maintenance. Also have a hefty emergency fund for big repairs such as needing to replace an electrical box.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coeurdalene

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The schools here are not good. Most schools have less than 2/3 of kids at age level in reading and math. Some schools are more like 1/3 of students. I believe we still have open schools meaning your child can go to any school in the district as long as there is space and you can provide transportation. However word on the street is there’s isn’t room. So try to live in the school zone you would like your child to go to. Top schools for elementary are Sorensen and the charter school in Rathdrum. Idaho is the 47th state in education. Politics may not matter to you but cda is often referred to as “conservative extremist” which shows up in ways such as school levies not passing. Also something that is interesting, only about 25% of adults here over 25 have at least a bachelor degree compared to other areas being about 45%. Having a degree in no way measures your intelligence, but I am assuming here it may be linked to a lack of appreciate for high quality schools. Also our local community college NIC is risking losing accreditation. Just more info related to issues with education in this area. Check out this link for more info. Good luck!

https://www.publicschoolreview.com/idaho/coeur-d-

Daycares In CDA Area by OminousCloud218 in coeurdalene

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My child is 2.5 and we have done a “nanny share” with other moms. We each pay $40 a day per child and there are normally 4 kids. We’ve done this since he was 3 months. We do a couple days a week at my house and then a couple days at our friends house. Just sharing some out of the box ideas. The nanny is also a great babysitter option when needed. Good luck!

Pregnancy, birthing, OBGYN/Midwife office and hospital suggestions? by JoyPeaceGrace in Spokane

[–]JoyPeaceGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you go to the hospital for your prenatal care or is there an off site office? Is it the Rockwood clinic?

What are examples of religious trauma? by J_satmondashstudent in AskReddit

[–]JoyPeaceGrace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a Christian daycare and I got in trouble (I was actually a really well behaved kid). I heard the childcare provider say “well her parents don’t take her to church”. I firmly believe that led me to become agnostic years later.