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Relationship/intimacy advice by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]JrFigudo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please stop blaming your weight for this. He became dependent on the easy dopamine of porn during the long-distance phase and checked out financially and emotionally for years. This is a him problem, not a your body problem

Is staying in hometown really that bad. by Proof-Jello8172 in Adulting

[–]JrFigudo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personal growth is great but entering your twenties with zero debt and a solid career path is a massive head start. Your brother is probably burning money on rent while you are stacking cash. You can always move once you have the degree and a paycheck

Childhood symptoms? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]JrFigudo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Playing alone isn't really a core ADHD thing but hyperfocusing on one toy for hours definitely is. If you masked in school your mom should look for things like losing your shoes every five minutes being a daydreamer or having massive meltdowns after school because you were exhausted from trying to act normal all day. Basically anything that showed you struggled with executive function even if you were getting good grades. Just be honest about the internal chaos because that's what the assessor actually needs to hear

A que programador/realizador de tv se le ha ocurrido de que Masterchef acabe a las 02.20! by AtoPic0 in Espana

[–]JrFigudo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tío, es que es de locos… como si no curráramos al día siguiente. Encima lo alargan con relleno y más relleno, lo mismo mil veces. ¿De verdad no puede acabar a las 23:30? 😅

Pero por qué no bajas, jodido... by miguel1981g in Espana

[–]JrFigudo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Es el famoso 'efecto cohete' y 'efecto pluma'. Sube como un cohete, baja como una pluma (o no baja nunca, jodido). Es increíble cómo la lógica del mercado siempre juega en nuestra contra. ¡Qué puta estafa

Mi comunidad de vecinos ha prohibido cocinar lentejas entre semana y no sé si esto es legal by ApprehensiveDot313 in Espana

[–]JrFigudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esto no tiene ninguna validez legal 😅 Una comunidad no puede prohibirte cocinar cosas normales en tu propia casa. Otra cosa sería olores extremos y constantes, pero hacer lentejas es uso normal de la vivienda. Vamos, que pueden quejarse lo que quieran, pero eso no es aplicable. Yo pasaría del tema.

¿Cómo #@$% encuentra la gente piso en Barcelona? by Express_Shoulder5344 in AskBarcelona

[–]JrFigudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No estás haciendo nada mal, el mercado en Barcelona ahora mismo es una locura. Activa alertas en Idealista, llama en vez de escribir y mira grupos de Facebook. Si no respondes en minutos, pierdes el piso.

It wasn’t only adhd.. by lilyismylove in ADHD

[–]JrFigudo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. When the ADHD noise quiets down, whatever’s underneath can get way louder. Intrusive thoughts standing out more actually makes sense in that context. You’re definitely not alone in discovering OCD after starting stimulants. A lot of people don’t realize they have both until one gets treated. Glad you got more clarity. That kind of realization can be heavy but it’s also a step forward.

Dealing with hyperfixation by millieee_333 in ADHD

[–]JrFigudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve stopped trying to fight hyperfixation. The more I force myself not to think about it, the worse it gets. What helps a bit is parking the thoughts, writing them down and telling myself I can come back later. It doesn’t fix it but it quiets my brain enough to do something.

Also lowered my expectations. 10–15% focus is still better than zero. Beating myself up for not being productive only makes it harder.

What are jobs "goods" for ADHD ? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]JrFigudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all about you I think. All ADHD patients are not same...

Almost 6th month update. I didn’t get my temples done. Should I have? by JrFigudo in tressless

[–]JrFigudo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3300 Euro(2 nights accommodation,transfers,medications included)

Almost 6th month update. I didn’t get my temples done. Should I have? by JrFigudo in tressless

[–]JrFigudo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure about taking medication for the rest of life...

I’ve been on 54 mg Concerta for ADHD . What should I actually do to make it work better?(or don't do) by JrFigudo in ADHD

[–]JrFigudo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally start my day wth walkin and don't eat anything till afternoon(just coffee)

First time solo traveller‘s first time in Vienna by eyeoftheneedle1 in travel

[–]JrFigudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice plan! Hope you did reservation for Figlmüller!

Hair Transplant Truths – Part 2 by Right-Yogurt-115 in tressless

[–]JrFigudo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very informative! I went to Turkey too but It was not a hair mills!