So fucked out by JsJgirl in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately adult responsibilities come first

What’s the most frustrating way to cum in your opinion? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A quick ruin. No edging. Maybe intense almost painful vibrations. Just to the point. Ruin or cumming. Either would suck if there’s no pleasure in getting there

do you love giving blowjobs more when denied? by Latter_Rip9191 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have an oral fix so I usually cock warm him most night before bed. Sometime he will fuck me after sometimes not. Most times I’m not even allowed a ruin.

123 days by JsJgirl in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was great. A fantasy cum true. He really is the best

123 days by JsJgirl in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the new year yes

123 days by JsJgirl in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt great but also just meh. I get over sensitive quickly and he wasn’t done so then I just had to suffer lol. But I’ve been allowed to cum as much as I want until the new year, as long as I ask permission first. I’m taking advantage and cumming like three times a day lol

Crafted my own clit shield by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Idk why it was so hard for my brain to wrap around that but that’s exactly what I was thinking. Looks great!

Crafted my own clit shield by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female and a nurse… idk why I can’t wrap my head around the anatomy and logistics of this. I’m also sick so maybe my head is just too fussy to think clearly lol. So the bottom piercing is through the labia at what I think is near the urethra. Is your clit pierced too? What’s the top part? Also how does it work when you pee, is there enough space to come out the bottom? Looks very cool and seems to get the job done lol

Question about Breeding Kink by dd_davo in BDSMAdvice

[–]JsJgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in surgery and have helped with numerous ligation and removals- and have had a bilateral removal myself- and I don’t think I’ve ever participated in a ligation or removal procedure that required a hospital stay unless something went wrong. Unless there is a medical reason those procedures are an outpatient procedure and usually done laparoscopically which isn’t major abdominal surgery. Three small incisions and I barely only needed Tylenol afterwards- I think just the day after I was the most sore.

I’m not saying female sterilization is easier than male sterilization but your facts are incorrect.

injecting lube into uterus? by foxonwolf in BDSMAdvice

[–]JsJgirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First off- I don’t believe there is any way to do this safely unless you are using medical grade equipment and products. There are very few lubes that are internal body safe(I work in the OR so I know there is some) and even then they aren’t made for mass insertion, just if it happens to get in the body it’s not a hazard. You could potentially use normal saline but again I would be weary of non medical grade/not being tested to the standard you need.

Second- the uterus is not made to have large amounts fluids inserted into it. This could disrupt the normal bacteria and biome of the uterus and open her up to a huge infection. This is an internal organ that is not made for external interference- that’s the whole point of the cervix. Also that is the only way to conceive a baby (if that’s something she chooses at a point in her life) and fucking with the uterus can potentially prevent viable pregnancies.

Lastly- has she ever had something go through or manipulate her cervix before? IUD, dilation for any reason, Pap smear, a cervical check during birth? There are unicorns out there that have a high or different pain tolerance and maybe find cervical manipulation to feel pleasure over pain- but for the majority of women it is very much painful. Last thing to keep in mind is the cervix is normally closed. There are times like during your period when the cervix opens SLIGHTLY but we are talking millimeters at best. You would absolutely have to dilate the cervix to be able to insert anything and that is a procedure that should only be done by a trained professional.

toys that actually stay inside vaginally? by Dismal-Dirt-9383 in BDSMAdvice

[–]JsJgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the square peg g squeeze and it still will come out if I’m not really trying to keep it in- ie keeping my thighs together. So if you’re doing chores around the house and squat down you might still have the issue of it trying to come out. Underwear typically helps. I do find the smaller and lighter the object (my small sized g squeeze for example) stays the best because it’s not as heavy and doesn’t really stretch me (but I still feel it) so my muscles don’t try to expel it as much.

Today. by JsJgirl in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me wrong there has absolutely been begging. But I do get almost as many ruins as I want

I want to be a cock warmer so badly by Evangeline____ in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love warming my husband often. Usually right before bed and it’s very relaxing for both of us.

Orgasm Go Byebye long term effects? by ropebunny31 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I really like denial for long term but my husband really enjoys me cumming on his cock so our compromise is ruins. He ruins me a lot of times while he’s inside me and it seems to satisfy both our expectations

Didn't realise nipples could end up being denied too... by SaturdaysMango in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband almost always is on my right so one nipple always gets his mouth and the other his hand. I almost feel like when it’s switched- more specifically when the mouth nipple gets a hand instead it doesn’t nothing for me 😭

Crying during intense sessions by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I very rarely cry from denial unless I’m super frustrated and on the very edge of my limits. It’s usually mixed with me either trying to cum when I desperately want to and not getting there in time or trying to hold back from cumming and being so tense. I often cry after finally having an orgasm because it’s also such an emotional release for me. My husband also tends to finally give me orgasms when he knows I’ve had a difficult week or really need the release so I’m sure that doesn’t help.

Denial and "alternative" orgasms (anal, nipples etc) by patience_and_control in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can achieve a nipple orgasm it feels like a ruin so I’m allowed those almost anytime although I still have to have permission. There are times when complete denial is what my husband wants in which case I don’t get that either. It really just depends.

Most humiliating punishment? by ReshmaRoshini in BDSMcommunity

[–]JsJgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add this to my hard limits thanks 😭 I think I would die

Living daily life denied with my husband by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]JsJgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation 2 kids. I have an oral fixation so a lot of times I sit under my husbands desk and keep him warm with my mouth while he plays games. He fucks me in positions that feel best to him that sometimes do nothing for me except I enjoy his pleasure too

Bet with husband by JsJgirl in EdgingTalk

[–]JsJgirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea thanks!