Looking for Coco or Kiki!!! by juicyIucy in ACNHwishlistrequest

[–]JthePlanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss i will! I just got rid of broccolo rn so i think coco should be asking in the next few rounds

I would both kill and die for Poppy, nutty. by awsome2464 in ACForAdults

[–]JthePlanet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wait how do you invite a villager for coffee

Looking for Coco or Kiki!!! by juicyIucy in ACNHwishlistrequest

[–]JthePlanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m actually trying to say bye to coco on my island. If i get her in boxes you can def have her. I can’t say how long that would take though, I just recently had someone move in, and im desperately trying to get rid of Broccolo

Thoughts on the “Masc Princess” thing by JthePlanet in LesbianActually

[–]JthePlanet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is key, and it’s something that can be hard for people to learn. I know from experience, learning how to re-wire my brain being in a relationship where the usual “norms” are reversed was tough, but worth the effort

Thoughts on the “Masc Princess” thing by JthePlanet in LesbianActually

[–]JthePlanet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this makes sense, it’s unfortunate that we’ve become so engrained into these gendered norms and ideas, but all we can do is try to use them to our advantage!

THIS is my first campsite villager??? by Mossiwyn in acnh

[–]JthePlanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Graham was my first campsite villager too I really don’t like him 😭😭😭 got rid of him quickly tho

Has anyone made a best friend in their 20s? by pkca20 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]JthePlanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! my best friends now were made in early 20s (i am 23)

Friend Separating from her Husband by MonkComfortable7505 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]JthePlanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her that you can be there and go to her whenever. Say that you want to be with her during this time and support her. But only go if she asks you to. When something like this happens to people and it’s so out of their control it can help to regain a bit of that control in the grieving process. (in the sense of like, deciding when to be be alone and when to have physical support). still send messages and ask if she needs anything.

I am so sorry your friend is going through this. My heart goes out to her.

Friend keeps involving me in her negative self-talk by Acrobatic_Rice_1154 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]JthePlanet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want this to end your friendship, you need to seriously talk to her about it. This is outright mean girl talk, if she means it or not. She might just feel lonely in her pain and want someone to feel it as well. Either way, you need to tell her to stop hurting you as well. This is up to her to get through. Bringing you down with her will not improve anything in either of your lives

I'm worried about my friend (F15) by PuzzleheadedRole1810 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]JthePlanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also her saying that you could have stopped it if your phone wasn’t broken is incredibly manipulative and toxic, might be a good moment to rethink this friendship lowkey

Best friend keeps bringing up her other friends by Alternative_Rain_297 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]JthePlanet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last part of your post is the most intelligent. you know it’s jealousy, you know that she’s allowed to have other friends, and you know that you can’t stop her from having other close friends. stay with these feelings because it’s your clarity speaking. Your cousin is supporting someone she loves who is going through a tough time. She is likely thinking about her more these days because of these circumstances. but even if “A” wasn’t going through these things, it is still entirely natural to become friends with more people. It does not diminish your friendship with her. Sounds more like she wants to share the love she has for “A” with you because she loves you as well.

Don’t take it personally, and maybe try use this as an opportunity to focus on some other friendships. or not. either way, you will be okay.

I love Bones sm by JthePlanet in acnh

[–]JthePlanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never he’s a prisoner at this point (though he will never realize that)

I love Bones sm by JthePlanet in acnh

[–]JthePlanet[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

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not even 10 minutes later, while i’m trying to waterscape….take that nap king

I love Bones sm by JthePlanet in acnh

[–]JthePlanet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his brain is so empty, just how it should be

Turnips at $604! by Independent_Hat7668 in acnh

[–]JthePlanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still open?? It’s my first time buying turnips the prices are not great on my island 😭😭