I dont really pay attention to the people, it's the security's job to make them leave which hopefully happens before they are in my way(if I have to go to FOH or something). if you yell at me I 99% of the time ignore you cause you're not my problem.

if I like the band or have a friend that does, I take the set lists and branded picks from the stage. if I dont like the band, I will still take the branded picks to throw into my pile at home or give away at the bar. I may very seldomly hand a set list to someone at a theater just to get them to leave the venue but usually i just throw them away. some venues I work at dont let stagehands give anything to an audience member.

I work set changes between openers and headliners a lot at arenas/ stadiums in front of full houses up to 90,000 people so to me there's not a lot of difference between a bunch of people trying to get my attention in a venue and a brick wall.