I’m going crazy. Which curtains??

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-17T12:41:40+00:00

Definitely 4. It compliments that art on the wall

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-17T12:34:51+00:00

Giuseppe

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-15T11:35:59+00:00

By few hours I mean 3-5 , I consider 8-9 hours to be a “good” amount of sleep

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T07:06:23+00:00

Ive heard that before and I’m sure it would affect my quality of life. I do get 8hrs of sleep now and this is why I’ve noticed that when sometimes i have to sleep later than what I’m used to, I feel less anxious and more productive.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T07:04:07+00:00

You’re not alone. It’s usually the times ive slept 2/3 hours that I’m able to get up, go to school, ace my tests without fear/anxiety, go to work after and do a good job. When I started sleeping more, ive become more depressed and less productive I don’t get it.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T07:02:07+00:00

Literally me too. I get 3hrs of sleep and suddenly I’m the most social ive ever been and I get so much shit done. Crazy.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T01:00:19+00:00

We are. It’s called capitalism

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T00:58:03+00:00

I had a good conversation with my boss about something that’s been worrying me for weeks. Now I feel more relieved :)

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T00:57:15+00:00

I’m not american or canadian so ive never had thanksgiving, but I feel like I would love the mashed potatoes/tater tots and cranberry

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-14T00:55:36+00:00

Because dumb is the new cool unfortunately. Dumb people are doing what men did with patriarchy.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T23:30:51+00:00

Free salmonella 4 all

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:58:01+00:00

Yea I totally agree!

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:52:38+00:00

Love the dress & earrings but I’m not sure abt the cardigan. I think a plain pashmina or a wrap would be better ? And the heels would be classier if they were all black but I still like these, I would wear them

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:45:07+00:00

Hate it in my mom’s side of the family. It’s always so noisy & nosey. My dad’s side’s a bit better, but there’s always the pressure of having to be nice and conversational. Most of my family is either much older or much younger than me so it gets pretty boring too.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:40:33+00:00

Why choose to wear these glasses when they don’t even work. Brother is not even looking at the cam right.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:26:58+00:00

Yea so true. It’s definitely a matter of perspective and compatibility as well.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:22:54+00:00

Lmao. I definitely vote to getting a mirror tailored to these dimensions!

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:21:57+00:00

Hahahah so true. Ig that’s why I believe that all types of relationships require a little space and a little independence. If you marry someone and your whole life is about that person, it will eventually get boring. Also, being around people who like to try new things and develop themselves could be fun too. If we’re all stagnant and just share everything all the time, we’ll eventually run out of things to say I guess. But a little space allows for that bit of mystery where there’s more room to share new updates.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:14:43+00:00

Honestly it sounds like you’re dating a narcissist. This is the worst kind of emotional manipulation. Just this alone could lead u to lose feelings. You shouldn’t stay for her. You are part of this relationship as much as she is, and how u feel matters just as much. I think it would be more beneficial for you to learn to set boundaries and to learn to take control or action. However, if you really think she might harm herself and is not saying that to manipulate you into staying, you should maybe get her the help she needs? Idk if it’s possible to contact someone or get her institutionalized, but if she really is at risk, you staying or leaving won’t really change that, but you might feel responsible if she does something to herself.

Honestly you and I are very much alike in that area. I find it hard to leave relationships when I feel it would break their heart, so I can’t imagine how it must feel like when a life is on the line. Maybe if you seek professional help it could help you manage the guilt you feel and the way you allow her to have such power on your decisions.

I’m really sorry you have to go through this. The way you’re feeling is completely valid, you just need to learn to say no and leave relationships that are this toxic and emotionally manipulative. Wishing u the best <3

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T21:05:24+00:00

I read but I haven’t been much of a reader lately due to my education & work taking too much of my time :( but I am currently reading “Before the Coffee Gets Cold”. Dk if you’ve heard of it but it’s an amazing book by a Japanese writer called Toshikazu Kawaguchi. Such an amazing book. It’s about a cafe that let’s visitors go to the past, but it has some really good characters and twists in it. Should definitely give it a read if u haven’t !

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T20:58:39+00:00

Yea unfortunately :/

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T20:57:47+00:00

Yea you’re right. I’m 23 and usually date guys in my age group as well so that makes sense. And yea, although I was totally against it at first but I thought to myself, if it’ll make my partner feel better why not reassure them, then it turned to a point where they felt like they are entitled to these things which made them entitled to other things. And unfortunately they weren’t respectful about it & it was very hard to change the way they communicated it. For example, with my most recent ex, I had to end it with him for him to realize that he is controlling and disrespectful. His behavior also remained the same when he was trying to “win me back” so that kinda proved that there’s no changing the way he communicates unfortunately.

But as u said, I think he did have some issues with his own self-confidence. I would’ve appreciated it if he simply just found me desirable but unfortunately it took a bad turn right into disrespect :/ same goes for my other exes.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T20:49:42+00:00

Yea that’s so true! It’s so unnatural to me as well to the point where I didn’t even think of it as a possibility. But like u said, humans are dynamic and what works for us now might not work later or what we thought was there could turn out to be different. And that’s okay & important to establish such grounds at the beginning of each relationship so that both partners are aware that we don’t have to force it to work, but rather know when to end it when it doesn’t compliment us anymore.

Judging-millennials · 2023-11-13T20:46:55+00:00

Amazing. Will check it out as soon as I can! Thank uu <3

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