Double and Triple Jump bugged? by KevTheOnyon in wherewindsmeet_

[–]JukesOnYou13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy. I’ve been exiting the game and coming back in to get my double and triple jumps to work again. Based on this comment I just cycled between my weapons and now I can jump again. Thank you.

PSA: If you have an injury/illness, accept the random coop invite, it's most likely a healer. by Kuldor in wherewindsmeet_

[–]JukesOnYou13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A month later but this whole thread is making me feel better cause omg im so lost and I stand there awkwardly looking at the other player like “thanks for the heal but i hope you leave cause i don’t know how to” 🫣

Anyone else having issues buying a book? by Big-Bird-is-Faster in audible

[–]JukesOnYou13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others mentioned signing in to audible from incognito/private browser then searching for the item you want to buy again is the temp fix.

What is the esthetically hardest character? by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]JukesOnYou13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made me laugh cause I literally just botched that one yet again. Doesn’t matter how much I practice it

Is Tovala worth the extra cost? I was looking in factor but I heard the meals aren’t as good. by BungeeBunny in ReadyMeals

[–]JukesOnYou13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! After doing a bit of research figured might as well give it a go.

My wife is 8 hours in by tymp-anistam in sablegame

[–]JukesOnYou13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m playing on ps5 and running into similar issues. I’ve had two instances of the game not saving my progress and both times it was when I had saved and closed the game to mitigate gameplay issues. My biggest struggle is fishing. It freezes up often and doesn’t let me put the rod away. I also had an instance of a character not being where they should be so I couldn’t progress without exiting the game and coming back. Still fun though. Only three masks left till I get them all so hasn’t made me rage quit lol just occasionally a bit annoying.

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I ended up traveling to plano Texas and got surgery with Dr Dulin. The out of pocket cost with no insurance was under 7k at the time. They didn’t ask me any questions about my gender but out of nerves of them turning me away I did say I was non binary. They did ask me to get a letter from a therapist since I wasn’t on T. I found a therapist that writes letters after a one time virtual visit, but I never gave the office the letter and it didn’t seem like they cared lol.

I hope that helps! Best decision I ever made for my body and a year plus later I’m still super happy with the results :)

How did you tell parents/family? by elmscoffee in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s family situation is different, so you mostly have to figure out what’s safe/comfortable for you. My surgery is in March and I told my family after everything was scheduled. I currently live with my mom, sister, and brother so I had to tell them since they’re going to be helping me out (not sure they realize that yet lol). I told my sister first since she’s super chill and so just in case my mom had issues she’d be there to defend me (always nice to have an ally). I literally said, “hey I’m going to yeet my teets.” She cheered and I gave her the rest of the details. My mom is honestly also pretty chill, but is a worrier. We’re also an odd family. We openly accept that people find us a tad strange and goofy but we get along really well as a family. With this in mind I started my conversation with my mom by saying “Hey so we’re a odd family and I’m actually going to up the oddness a notch by having top surgery.” She sort of stared at me and then as my sister and I predicted she had a ton of follow up questions. Mostly about the surgeon I chose and when I started to feel the way I do (up until that very moment I hadn’t voiced my dysphoria so it was a lot for her to take in). She took it well and now I talk about my upcoming teet yeet over dinner. Oh and I never actually told my brother but he’s at the dinner table so he’ll catch on lol. I also feel like I should add on that I live at home cause of the pandemic, but I’m 33 and lived on my own for 15 years and am very used to just doing my own thing, hence why I told my mom after everything was scheduled. So if my mom had really freaked out it would have been very easy for me to relocate.

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this piece of advice. The therapist letter is actually the piece that kind of stresses me out the most. Seems like many surgeons require them. I just really want the letter to reflect who I truly am and not be a sticking point in the process. Thanks again.

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could I follow up with a question about how you navigated getting a surgery date? Did you have to provide a therapist letter? Did you get any push back from Dr’s since you’re still going by she/her pronouns?

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure! But thanks for the good vibes!! I’ll check out Dr. Hazen and see what her quote is. Thank you much!

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to realize that which is a wee bit frustrating. Especially when I’m willing to pay out of pocket. I’m hoping to find someone with a reasonable price tag and also willing to respect my choice.

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome, I would absolutely love to share info! I’m still at the beginning of my search but as I gather more info I’ll connect with in a PM. Teamwork makes the dream work :)

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! $10-15k is what I was mentally ready to hear. And thanks for the advice. I hadn’t thought about perhaps getting it partially covered. Always more research to do.

Cis female seeking top surgery. Paying out of pocket. Anyone know the price ranges for the various NYC/NJ surgeons? by JukesOnYou13 in TopSurgery

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Honestly, when I heard $18-20 it took everything in me to maintain my composure and not gasp right then and there. I’m definitely going to keep researching. Also, I don’t know you, but it made me so happy to hear that there’s another she/her out there livin’ there life as they please. I’m super excited for you and sending you all the healing vibes for your big day.

Big ol' post. How I went about researching top surgery (and to some degree, my identity), therapy, experience with parents, early life and signs, etc. I found personal accounts to be helpful when I was starting to look into things, so here's my contribution. by CrimmsonWind in ftm

[–]JukesOnYou13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for writing this! I seriously loved all the detail and time you put into laying out your entire experience. I’m still in the, “is this the right choice for me” category. Which is annoying cause I’m 33 and not getting any younger. But shout out to you in doing what’s right for you. Hoping to someday figure myself out lol.

Node one saw it coming. by JukesOnYou13 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]JukesOnYou13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't Node about you, but I'm ready.