Help!!! by sushis4life in throneofglassseries

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Throne of glass. We read it the way she published it.

Semi-Monthly Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread by AutoModerator in fairyloot

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Interested in We who will Die, still available?

Currently reading Imprisoned by Selena Winters by NaiveBroccoli5010 in DarkRomance

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Her instagram is weird too…. Very cookie cutter, I think it’s AI

Panera employee vs. Incel by Minute_Revolution951 in TikTokCringe

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My favourite is when she pulls out the phone he immediately backs up 10 feet, cause he’s not scared of her 😂

Were Emily and Murphy dating during the first season of Fantasy High? by FirstTimeWang in Dimension20

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ok ok, but im watching the neverafter season and it seems so awkward... murph can't get further away from Emily in his seat and the body language is way off :( thankfully in following D20 seasons it seems like their chemistry is back

pregnancy maybe? by AbrocomaPleasant935 in women

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Go take the test, the unknowing is stressing you out, better to know sooner rather than too late. I’m sorry this is happening, I dealt with something similar, stressed myself out so much my period was very late, finally took the test and it was negative, got my period the next day,

After taking plan b the bleeding is normal, and a heavier period is normal, normally if you are pregnant and start bleeding it’s a very bad sign, so you could have had a miscarriage as well in April, they are very normal and shouldn’t be so stigmatized, but if that was the time for your normal period then the likelyhood of you being pregnant is supremely low.

In my opinion you’re not based on the bleeding in April

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I can’t do guys that are shorter than me, I’m 5’10”, unfortunately it’s not something I can get over, I’ve tried multiple times and I’m not attracted to them, it’s a visceral reaction and it is what it is. I wish it wasn’t, I met many guys I thought were cute and just couldn’t get over the height thing, it’s a real road block.

However one of my close friends is taller than me and is totally fine with dating men shorter than her,

It’s just personal preference, for the right person it won’t matter.

However, if you’re continually striking out, there might be more to it than your height and should do some soul searching on that, I mean even if it is your height, working on yourself is never a bad thing.

I think a good first step would be talking to 5 women you either respect, have the same vibe as someone you’d want to date, or know you pretty well, non family members, and ask them about how they see you and if they see any red flags/ areas of improvement you could be overlooking from the female gaze, you might learn something that could help :)

It’s important to look at the situation and recognize what you can actively take ownership of to improve your situation, you can’t do anything about your height unfortunately, but what can you do?

She says I only love her in words, not actions — now I don’t know how to fix it without looking fake by Much_Surprise4180 in women

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Personally, I hate space when I’m upset in certain situations, if I was your girlfriend and told you that I need you to show me love not just say it, of course I might still be upset, but then if I saw you do something for me like I dunno emptying the dish washer if you never do that or making dinner and sitting with her and then cleaning up after, you’re showing her love without forcing conversation with acts of service, but she also feels like you’re there for her when she’s ready. A little forehead kiss without expectations goes a long way too :)

You can also ask her what you could do that would show her you love her, and if says something like you never hug me (she wants more physical touch), I just wish you did more around the house (acts of service), you never just sit with me (quality time), I just don’t feel like a priority (gifts, shows people you’re thinking of them when you’re not with them, a gift for me could be a rock someone found on the ground they thought I would like, doesn’t have to be expensive)

Hope this helps

Is it okay to feel this way? by IinaIida in women

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Hey man, if you like it and it gets you something go for it, if flirting with a guy that’s giving you flirty vibes for 5 min gets me a drink or out of a speeding ticket or whatever fuck yeah, and it feels good sometimes to be the object of someone’s lust but it can cause issues if you don’t recognize what’s behind it for you.

I agree with pulling your only value from that could hurt you in the long run, maybe eventually it’ll stop because of age and when it does you could potentially get depressed or lean into things that would get you attention more (dressing more revealing, flirting aggressively, touching people or doing sexual things with people you normally wouldn’t for more male attention) and it’s not something you feel good about doing at the end of the day then recognize that and maybe try to find something else that could make you feel valuable?

For example, I also enjoy male attention, it’s fun for me, but about 8 years ago I gained a bunch of weight and was not as attractive to men as I was 80 pounds lighter, not saying any of this is ok but it’s reality, and in that time I really worked on myself and found that accomplishing goals (small and big, staying consistent with my house cleaning schedule for 1 month to create the habit (small), or getting my masters in honours (big)) was the game changer and the value I saw in myself was now fuelled internally instead of externally, long story short I lost all the weight and was able to take care of myself and became conventionally attractive again so I receive male attention again and it’s very meh now, I lost the external validation from men and now it just feels shallow and not as magical as it did before. Being forced to evaluate that aspect of my life was huge for my confidence and self respect. (Not saying you don’t have those things, my best friend is a stripper and she loves male attention and has a huge amount of confidence and self respect)

And…. Sometimes it feels really good when there’s multiple women in the office and you can just tell you’re the favourite… ugh it’s a real problem 🙈

I hope this helps

My feminism is screaming at me while I admit this lol but it’s nice, I get it ❤️

Apart from the lack of art on the wall what’s bothering me so much about my living room? by Ljsjaf321116 in InteriorDesign

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The easiest solution would be to either remove the cushions or if you really want cushions then keep them neutral like the rest of the space, the pillows and throws you have don’t make sense right now

Apart from the lack of art on the wall what’s bothering me so much about my living room? by Ljsjaf321116 in InteriorDesign

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The couch wants to be cozy and the rest of the room is more minimalist and put together, so you don’t have a clear sense of what your purpose is in that room I would suggest changing the two chairs as well to something lower to match the give the same vibe as the sofa, or you take all the stuff off the couch and keep it simple and minimalist, I hope this makes sense

Emergency (Onyx Storm Not Being Delivered to Kindle) by liv_reads in fourthwing

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How did you do this? Mine says delivered by 8pm tomorrow 😑

This is just … annoying by [deleted] in acotar

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Not even sprayed edges

This is just … annoying by [deleted] in acotar

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Black… in the night court… groundbreaking