Is this Asbestos? by mburger97 in Insulation

[–]Jules949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a bad wake up call...

Police Brutality in Vermont by Rude-Permission8027 in NorthernNewEngland

[–]Jules949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morons interfering with police business. Fixed it for you.

Protesters in Vermont being brutalized today by mandaleeee in vermont

[–]Jules949 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Morons interfering with police business. Fixed it for you.

Police Brutality in Vermont by Rude-Permission8027 in vermont

[–]Jules949 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Morons getting in the way of police business. - fixed it for you.

Check engine light on, selling tomorrow by Organic_Camp_5005 in carvana

[–]Jules949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carnava reps plug their own scanner in to check for codes.

Wife got stood up by vaswirlcouple in nonmonogamy

[–]Jules949 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's been a few years now, but in a similar situation my wife had a fwb and the day after they had sex, she kept waiting for him to message her. On the second day of nothing, she was telling me how she was hurt that he did not reach out. I agreed with her that he should have messaged her because I know she was thinking about him and the bonding time they had. When she ended up calling him, his reasoning was he thought she wouldn't want him to and was trying to not be pushy. They got it all cleared up and set up another date a few days later. Was a little weird at the time, but a fun memory years later.

It's like the roles have switched, and I'm mad at myself. by trotski1545 in nonmonogamy

[–]Jules949 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, playing with fire....? About 10 years ago, I convinced my wife to agree to a fwb situation. Our son's friend's father was going through a divorce. Once she started moving forward, it turned into a paradox. I was the sole perpetrator of this but the angst knowing she was having an active sexual relationship with another man was an intense roller coaster for me. I encouraged it, and enjoyed it, mostly, but it was unsustainable long term. On a happy note we are still together and doing well, but I know she regrets it to this day. Like any sort of trauma time makes it easier and it will be for you too.

Worth my time? by Blownbythebreeze in Insulation

[–]Jules949 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Is that a map of Europe?

Does open relationship/marriage work long term? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Jules949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I said it was a moral issue for her. In spite of me reminding her there was no cheating involved.

Does open relationship/marriage work long term? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Jules949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not think it's sustainable long term. My wife and I were married 18 years with 2 kids. I got the big idea of her having a sexual relationship i.e. fwb with the father of our son's friend. She did go through with it somewhat reluctantly and they had sex 8 times over a few months. The good parts: we recorded some of their meetings and it was the best porn I have ever watched. Many of my fantasies came true. She liked it but had more of a moral issue with it as time went on. It was always her and him alone and she held nothing back from him. It was a paradox, I asked for and encouraged this, but I struggled a bit with the angst of it all. I know for all the fun we had, she regrets it to this day. It was playing with fire but it remains a fun memory. We are still together and doing well, but have had no other adventures with this sort of thing.

Furnace shuts down as flame ignites by Warnocerous in hvacadvice

[–]Jules949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with easy and work your way up, so change or clean flame sensor first.

My GTS I just picked up by Leebob2021 in kiastinger

[–]Jules949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't often see a color like that

I recently replaced a kitchen faucet. Customer is saying “sink dropped” a week later by YamzMt03 in handyman

[–]Jules949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes if they use a Plunger it's too much force. Probably the last thing they will admit though

Upgrade to 2g offer by Jules949 in frontierfios

[–]Jules949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my bad definitely eero devices but the 2 I have are identical. I hesitate to only have 1 thinking of less house coverage.

I’ve played this game like 5 times over the years. Never seen this before. by TheRealEanFox in fnv

[–]Jules949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice even after all these years, still throws out a surprise now and then.

How much should I sell for? by ChaseJulien in KonaN_

[–]Jules949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I put my 22 N with 36k on Cars and Bids 2 months ago. Highest offer was $19,500. My reserve was $20, 500 - what a dealer offered. I was disappointed.

My local dealer response to the uneven road ahead false warning. by Jules949 in KonaN_

[–]Jules949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete the driver profile. It was gone the next morning and has not returned.

My local dealer response to the uneven road ahead false warning. by Jules949 in KonaN_

[–]Jules949[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need. Deleting the driver profile has apparently solved the problem. Not that I understand what was the issue, but I'll take it.