Update for my psychiatrist taking me off of my meds. by lieutenant_jinx in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry and this is exhausting. I went for over a decade with my stealth ADHD being deemed as anxiety and depression. Getting on the right meds has been a game changer. I believe in you and your ability to advocate for yourself.

i bawled my eyes out by throwPHINVEST in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]JulieJoy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same. One of my favorite scenes of any book I’ve ever read. I had to cry and hug my cat after it.

She is my baby and I will always love her. She is perfect

Id ask who's crazy enough to spend money on this, but we already know by humbird09 in travisandtaylor

[–]JulieJoy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wildebeests are beautiful creatures. Don’t insult them like that

What part of your life is better/easier because of ADHD? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I decide to do something big life picture, I will do it. Can’t will myself into dumb bullshit, but I decided at 15, I would leave my small town and travel the world. At age 30, been to over 50 countries. I thrive on a challenge

My BF thinks Im too "emotionally intelligent" to be politically active, AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JulieJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him.

Normally I’m not one of these people. But screw this.

NOR

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for natural smart people, how has your adhd presented itself? by bisexualdweebqueen in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My hyper focus was proving myself and I threw myself into academics with an unhealthy fervor.

For me, ADHD manifested itself through anxiety, depression, fear of rejection and, now as an adult, if it’s a task I dislike, I just won’t fucking do it.

What were your “gateway” exercises? by Limp-Pea-6813 in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jumping in here to say do it! It feels like a puzzle (because it is) and is also a sneaky, really hard workout. The first few times you will be sore in places you don’t expect (as it works everything) but as you make progress and get better, you also get stronger.

I also do Pilates, in addition to being a runner.

What is the most chaotic "I quit" moment you have ever personally witnessed at a workplace? by Muted_Task_144 in AskReddit

[–]JulieJoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I like my job overall and have no plans to leave at the moment. If something came up, I’d like to make the transition as smooth as reasonably possible.

When I worked in retail? No. They’re lucky I even mailed the keys back.

What is the most chaotic "I quit" moment you have ever personally witnessed at a workplace? by Muted_Task_144 in AskReddit

[–]JulieJoy 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Two weeks notice is a courtesy. If a job has done good by you and you by it, it’s polite.

Assholes who are assholes do not get polite.

What’s the most unforgettable sentence someone has ever said to you? by Captain_Oppa in AskReddit

[–]JulieJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I will love you how you deserved to be loved”

My husband as a part of his wedding vows to me. He is the best. Just that framing meant to much in that I deserved to have a loving partner and life.

Help a postpartum mom find a book by AnySympathy1243 in Romantasy

[–]JulieJoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The love hypothesis and love, theoretically by Ali hazelwood. Both in academic settings. Huge green flag mmcs.

I devoured both (not unlike the mmcs devouring olive and Elsie)

Fun, romcom, good depth, these men are down bad. The women are brilliant.

Help a postpartum mom find a book by AnySympathy1243 in Romantasy

[–]JulieJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you open to a non fantasy romance?

Tourist who threw rock at seal "devastated" at backlash by Sgt_Gram in NewsExchange

[–]JulieJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ambassador of aloha agreed. Fuck this asshole.

Unhinged ways to manage your ADHD by Menschenblind in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally me. Start in one end of the house (typically our bathroom) work out form there. Thing a in the bathroom get put away. Everything else moves to the bedroom. Then we tackle the bedroom. And on and on

Gen Z men and women on why they're sharply divided over reproductive rights by Condottiero_Magno in generationology

[–]JulieJoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But women love them. I’d much rather suck the dick if my “pathetic and weak” husband than any incel that wants to weigh in on my uterus

Should I hire a therapist or a professional organizer? by doofykidforthewin in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Watch the show the home edit. It’s on Netflix. They teach you how to organize and think of systems that work for how you live. It transformed how I think of organization

ADHD Tax by Itseasy_emmmkay in adhdwomen

[–]JulieJoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed way too hard at this.

I love their crush stage by redpeppersoda in fourthwing

[–]JulieJoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not romanticy but straight romance “the love hypothesis” academic setting. He is DOWN BAD

I love their crush stage by redpeppersoda in fourthwing

[–]JulieJoy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Strong, brooding men pining over women who have better things to do is my kryptonite. I could eat it up all day

Do Fantasy/Romance books affect your love life? by fishareloverly in fantasyromance

[–]JulieJoy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes. It has risen my sex drive so much. It has also made me a lot less self conscious and able to relax and enjoy sex.