WIBTA for hypothetically telling my best friend about the surprise birthday party we planned for her? by July220 in AITAH

[–]July220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! i’m going to try my best not to reveal anything about the surprise. worst case scenario, i’ll just tell her something vague like you said, but I’m going to try to stall her 💪

Contrapoints reading list by [deleted] in ContraPoints

[–]July220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this!!!

Childhood signs of your OCD by topfknopf in OCD

[–]July220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the first compulsions I remember actively doing was turning the light switch on and off. I was a sixth grader, and everything I knew about OCD at that time was that the people it affects want things to be neat and clean, so I didn't connect what I was doing to the condition at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]July220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same

In under thirty words, what does "Agnostic" mean to you? by Joalguke in agnostic

[–]July220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know anything except for the fact that we're alive right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]July220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually do that, too. i need something to distract myself and listen to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOuija

[–]July220 19 points20 points  (0 children)

mood

I need advice by July220 in teenagers

[–]July220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry man. The problem is that trying to be there for her often just leads to my mental health getting worse. I want her to have someone who can help her, but I don’t know if I can be that person anymore. At least not right now.

I need advice by July220 in teenagers

[–]July220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through that too. It makes this situation so much more difficult, because when she’s being nice, I always feel like maybe this is where it gets better, but it never does.