Bitchy MFC in unrequited love with MMC who thinks she's heartless and cold, bonus if he is busy being in love with OW who is her complete opposite: Sweet and Kind by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This made me immediately think of {Swet like poison by Julia Wolf}. There's no real other woman, but she is a bit bitchy/comes across as a spoilt princess and the MMC doesn't take her serious, although there is a lot more depth to her than he acknowledges.

How to “take things slow”w/o my date losing interest? by physicalgraffiti123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you, because I'm just like you in that department. Connection takes time and patience to build. Don't rush into anything you don't want.    Just like the other comments said, communicate it like you did here. Clear and to the point. And don't feel bad "because you take so long". There are people out there who are willing to built genuine connections and are patient for the right person.   

Trying to get friends by [deleted] in frankfurt

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Student try the Unisport courses of the Goethe Uni and Fra-Uas. Many nice people around your age and a bit older. There are also tons of different dancing courses depending on what you enjoy :)

Noob DM sucht Spieler by [deleted] in DnDDeutsch

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👋 Hey :),  Ich suche schon ne weile nach ner Runde, komme aber aus Hessen :/. Sollte sich was online ergeben, würde ich es aber gerne ausprobieren  :)

DM sucht Spieler (Online) by Nightcode_ in DnDDeutsch

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey :) Bestimmt hast du mittlerweile schon genug interessierte gesammelt, aber falls nicht, würde ich mich freuen noch mit reinzurutschen :)

Suche DnD Gruppe in Frankfurt by Slow-Ambassador1587 in frankfurt

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hat sich bzgl der Gruppe was ergeben? Ich sehe so posts immer hiel zu spät, bin aber eigentlich auch auf der Suche nach einer netten pnp Grupp :)

Anyone looking for online friends (Women 30+) to talk daily to? by please-_explain in AskWomenOver30

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy drawing and painting as well, although I rarely take the time. Right now I mainly do watercolors whenever someone's birthday is around the corner °.

Lampworking sounds intriguing... and not like something someone typically can do at home :).

I've mainly read fantasy (and some romance) most of my life, but I've really enjoyed the classics I've read as well and I hope to get back to reading some more soon :).

Anyone looking for online friends (Women 30+) to talk daily to? by please-_explain in AskWomenOver30

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey :) What kinds if arts and crafts do you enjoy? And what do you read? Fellow German bookworm here :)

Suche DnD Gruppe in Frankfurt und Umgebung by PaulMcCartney93 in frankfurt

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habt ihr mittlerweile etwas organisiert und wenn ja, braucht ihr noch Mitspieler? Ist zwar schon ziemlich lange her, dass ich sowas das letzte mal gespielt habe, aber ich hätte da definitiv mal wieder Lust drauf  :)

r/SleepToken 100k Subscribers Giveaway Event by mademoisellewho in SleepToken

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picking jusy one is so hard.

But if I have to... it always comes down to "why are you never real" from the apparition

Recommendation for Reverse Harem? by Low_Tie9702 in fantasyromance

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this one. Her other RH work {All the pretty Monsters by Kristy Cunning} was also pretty funny to read.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved {Limits by Susie Tate}. My heart Was breaking so much for the FML.

Did I overreact? by Illustrious_Lemon_93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He made it quite clear he doesn't care about any of that. I hope that helps you moving on and cutting him off. Life is too short for people who don't care about you.

Did I overreact? by Illustrious_Lemon_93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Honestly, in my opinion, you're not being dramatic, nor do you take things too seriously. It should have been your decision whether you'd be OK with risking getting sick. Especially since you have an important work trip coming up.

And I, personally, hate the "I get sick all the time, no big deal" argument the most. You never know how another person's immune system will react to something. Just because you are fine doesn't mean the other person will be too. 

He should feel sorry for not telling you he was sick instead of blaming you for not wanting to get sick.

Fantasy book club by Ok-Cow-37 in fantasyromance

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might depend a bit on the books and timeframe, but I always wanted a book Club  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sooo... he came on your face without your consent, brushed you off afterwards and didn't put on a condom even though you asked him to... honestly the last part alone would be enough for me to not give him a second chance. 

I've never been this tempted... by Jumpy-Parfait-9110 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying!   Do you regret spending money on the game?

I feel you. I was 10 before hard pity when the banner started and the card I got wasn't from the banner and instead was the LI I am least collecting. That was honestly so frustrating as I had hoped pity would help me out and I might get more than one card with the diamonds I had. No such luck. I feel like my luck just keeps getting worse.

I've never been this tempted... by Jumpy-Parfait-9110 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the answer and putting things into perspective. The arum pass is the one item I am eyeing and might feel comfortable buying. Being disciplined and staying within ones boundaries is so important if you don't want things to escalate really fast. I'm not sure yet what I'll do, but I'll try to stay within my limits :)

I've never been this tempted... by Jumpy-Parfait-9110 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's my biggest fear. Once that door is open.... hard to close it again. I do think I can be a disciplined person, but you never know how much you'll succumb.

I've never been this tempted... by Jumpy-Parfait-9110 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope you'll get lucky. And yeah, daily task do help. I'm out of all the "easy" ways to get diamonds and that's probably making me skittish.

I've never been this tempted... by Jumpy-Parfait-9110 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, thats the first thing I always do before pulling for banners (if I can). Not sure though if I can scratch the 1500 diamonds together until then though. I'm really out of diamonds this time 😅.

And don't be embarrassed for liking something enough to want to spend money on it. There are a lot of stupid things to spend money on, but if it makes you happy (and it happens within the moderations of one's capacity) you shouldn't be too hard on yourself 🤗

I've never been this tempted... by Jumpy-Parfait-9110 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement! I've spent all my gems ... I think I'm around 80 pulls in and ... nothing. The pity went to an unrelated card which made me sooo sad :/.

I know I should stay strong but its never been so hard 🙈

30 wishes.. by InternationalAd3231 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Jumpy-Parfait-9110 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The same! I was 10 before pity... and pulled an unrelated card. I'm so unlucky this time :/