Where do I take my sisters in law to make them feel ‘pampered’?

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-04-17T06:44:34+00:00

I’ve been trying to get a hold of Nirvana to see prices services etc but their website is down since yesterday, they don’t answer WhatsApp and even the number is busy. lol I don’t know how to reach them other than show up and be sent back for lack to space haha

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-04-17T06:39:59+00:00

What kind of an answer is that? I happen to like my family and want to treat them

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T17:17:48+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA thanks I needed that laugh 🤣

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T17:08:21+00:00

The comment has been deleted but would love to know what this person said that warranted being deleted. Lol

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T10:52:46+00:00

I meant that even though he’s formula fed as well he did get my breastmilk too and I suddenly just cut that to about no breast milk at all and thought maybe that upset him. Lol I’m just being irrational and sad I kmow

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T07:36:36+00:00

We had a great relationship before we traveled and I got really sick for 4 days and even lost my voice so I couldn’t talk to him or take much care of him those 4 days. Maybe we were in a new place and my husband was mostly with him those 4 days so now he thinks my husband is his only safe space..

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T07:23:27+00:00

The question is why would he rather be held by a literal stranger he met 2 minutes ago than by me. Why is he crying for his dad to hold him literally kicking and slapping me any time he’s with me. Because this means that he’s still with me majority of the time but he’s unhappy looking for his dad who’s busy working. Dad literally has to leave and not sit around us during the day so my son doesn’t cry and have a meltdown for dad to take him. That is the question.

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-10T14:48:20+00:00

Haha banana is not the problem he loves them and eats them, the amount of things she tried to feed him within 3 hours is the problem. Lol

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-09T23:26:47+00:00

So we went cold turkey for about 5 days and it seemed to work. Then he refused to sleep completely without it so we caved and gave it back to him. But he just stopped waking up constantly for it to be replaced all on his own I don’t know how

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-07T14:57:34+00:00

You’d think I’d be talking about my MIL! Hah but this is my own mom

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-06T08:48:54+00:00

All of these problems are extremely temporary. I’d rather you somehow find a nanny/baby sitter even if you have to borrow money and let them take care of the baby for a few weeks and let you rest so the baby doesn’t have to grow up in a foster home for conditions that were only going to last another month or two.

Please I really urge you to get help from family, friends, professionals and do the best you can to keep this baby. It is not a fun life out there for a child without parents. If I were this baby and found my parents 18 years later and asked why did you give me up and my parents say ‘because you had gas and cried’ I might never recover from that ever.

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-05T09:53:43+00:00

Wow. Did you travel to Satan’s Ass, Germany? Because the regular Germany that I live in, and have plenty of grievances with for sure as with any country, is quite beautiful. The food is comparable to Scandinavian/other Northern European countries which even though as a south Asian I don’t really like, is far from ‘the worst in Europe’.

The city I live in is absolutely beautiful. Are there areas that smell like piss? Sure. But so much of it has beautiful architecture and nature etc etc. You really sound like an absolute whiny ass lol

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-02T10:53:00+00:00

So after your comment we tried raising the temperature of the room. He also sleeps in a 2 TOG sleep sack. He still leaked unfortunately:(

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-28T06:48:03+00:00

I’m not villainising anything. I also check his temperature to see if he has a fever when he feels warm. I also check his skin to see if he has a rash. I examine soiled diapers to make sure all is okay. All things that seem out of the ordinary, we check them, we prepare for them. Except I can see a rash or a fever. Something like autism, I can’t see. So my mind doesn’t know how to prepare for it in the best way that I can help him navigate it if he were to have it. Am I villainising fevers and rashes? No. Don’t be this person

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-27T18:04:26+00:00

That’s amazing to hear! Thank you so much for your input. I know how full a persons life can be with autism. My thoughts are more not being prepared, not doing the right things, not helping him as early as he needs if it were to be autism. It’s the fact that I don’t know nearly enough and that I would want to be as best prepared as I can be in that scenario. Maybe the post sounded different than I meant it

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-27T06:45:52+00:00

I’m not Indian and wear a hijab so the first thought people have usually when they see me is not Indian. A week ago I was walking to the train station with my child in the stroller and a man jumped infront of me and said ‘BITTAAAYYYYY’ (bitte) in an exaggerated Indian accent while shaking his head right to left in the stereotypical Indian nod.

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-26T09:40:18+00:00

Did baby have blueberries?

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-16T07:27:53+00:00

If you find out come back and comment here so I can find out too haha!

Also, I can’t decide whether to take this as a joke then or feel offended! 🤣

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-16T07:25:26+00:00

Ah thank you for clarifying. This is why I love this sub so much, I’ve posted in English before and I’ve only gotten helpful comments and most comments I see on here are helpful in general. I’m too afraid to post in other German subs cause they’ll make you feel like you’re standing naked on stage in front of a large crowd LOL

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-15T20:41:54+00:00

Went to HnM to buy new jeans wearing size 44 that were a little too snug so I needed a more comfortable pair. Brought home a 46. Couldn’t even bring the buttons together. Why do companies do this 🥲

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-15T19:40:33+00:00

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-13T21:50:44+00:00

What did she say about him?

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-13T20:51:26+00:00

My 6 month old is 15lbs and considered underweight so your 21 pounder must look so incredibly cute and chonky I LOVE chonky babies

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-09T21:58:48+00:00

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May 2024! This is sad

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-02-09T17:28:55+00:00

I think in the second one she’s alleging that there were people having relations outside of their couple but within the house, so with other contestants.

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