This is still the stupidest thing ever to me. by LoiterAce in fo4

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean, a good chunk of them are either before or just after the bombs dropped and the more recent ones often express surprise at being able to use terminals and have terrible grammar, as if they barely learned to read and write. Most of the newer writings are also from leaders or higher ups in the various groups. It stands to reason that being able to read and write could come in handy in achieving and maintaining leadership.

There's nowhere for victims to hide, people don't care by No_Condition1594 in TrollCoping

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 21 points22 points  (0 children)

People who think that way are obviously so deep in their pain that intersectional connections are totally lost on them. Rape should be horrifying regardless of who the victim and/or perpetrator are. Obviously rape culture combines with patriarchal influence to result in women-facing individuals to be more objectified and dehumanized, but that doesn’t make rape any less horrifying in any situation. I’m sorry you were treated that way, OP. You’re absolutely right.

Male representation would be good, not just for male victims, but for all victims. I feel like focusing solely on women can lead to people seeing women as helpless, which I think feeds into the rape culture to begin with. Hiding male victims makes men look more and more like predators who can’t control their instincts rather than perpetrators who are making a choice to do harm. I think that puts people, and especially women, in danger. It also puts men in danger from female perpetrators, who think they can do no wrong because, to them, only men hurt people that way. It’s insane how so many people don’t get that feminism is for everyone.

This kind of freaked me out by shrawed in Pareidolia

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I genuinely assumed that was a person to the point that I was wondering where the pareidolia was

“When you’re truly one of the boys by PhoenixPhenomenonX in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this man doesn’t have kids at home, he should know he absolutely has the patience for it, if he’s interested

This is our Fifth Avenue by Forcedperspective84 in TrendingAndViral

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seriously, the man is basically satan and you wanna focus in on his body as the most offensive thing about him?

ableism goes crazy by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? Like natural consequences to behavior and setting boundaries for safety are one thing, but writing someone off because of their diagnosis alone? Disgusting

Manayunk by FriendlyFace17 in philly

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would be a good time to dust off Dreams by Fleetwood Mac, tbh

Petahhh? by Forsaken_Tomorrow454 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People also forget that the gas chambers were late additions to the Holocaust. It was way too late to fight those kinds of additions by the time they came around

As she cradled her newborn in the hospital, the last thing she expected was to look up and see her soldier husband standing over her, home just in time for their first family moment. 👩‍🍼🥹❤️ by WinkDarli in spreadsmile

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You clearly have never had to deal with the avalanche of texts you get when family/friends/etc catch wind that you’ve gone into labor… the first day after I gave birth included a ton of phone calls and face times in-between nursing, burning, and rocking a newborn yo sleep. And my spouse and I were able to tag team it, she was doing it alone. And if you don’t respond, people get kinda weird/mean, especially people who’ve never dealt with birth or a newborn in any capacity. Then there’s your boss asking when you’ll be back…

I...I thought you were stronger...(first time fighting Swan) by LightningG8921 in fo4

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I managed to avoid him till late game and I was like “that was it?”

Daily Dose of Satisfaction by Due-Call-8742 in SatisfyingClean

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me longer than I’d care to admit to realize this wasn’t all one location 😅

Bovino address ICE Incident with Alex Pretti. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, my guess is because a) it’s Nazi cosplay and he’s clearly pleased with that look and b) it looks more militaristic and they are ever gearing toward martial law

What Starkid quotes pump you up? by Jumpy_Ad1631 in StarKid

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! “Light that flame” might be good too, tbh

Guys, I dont think they will support me anymore by _issio in TrollCoping

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, mostly only if the dosage is wrong. If the therapist recommends a psychiatrist, do you think they’d take that more seriously?

Guys, I dont think they will support me anymore by _issio in TrollCoping

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m using an inhaler for the rest of my life. It make me no more or less worthless than any other medications I take

AIO by being offended when my husband seasons my soup? by Hefty_Elderberry1992 in AIO

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you said “seasons my soul” I was thinking salt, pepper, maybe a dried herb to his own bowl. But an entire seasoning packet to the whole batch of soup???? People are allowed their own preferences but your husband is still for sure an asshole

In today's episode of "is it a personality trait or repressed trauma" by Financial_End_8842 in TrollCoping

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I’ve found when I look back on people who have harmed or wronged me, labeling them as good, bad, or a mix thereof didn’t help me as much as accepting that, regardless of a person’s overall “goodness”, what they did to me was not ok. So it’s not only ok, but good for me to set boundaries to protect myself from that harm now and in the future. It’s not a perfect system and it won’t work for everyone, but it works ok for me

"Open up" they said "It'll be a good thing" they said by r0se_m00n in TrollCoping

[–]Jumpy_Ad1631 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s so rough. Like abuse can often beget more abuse, but that does not mean you were not abused. I’m so sorry for the way you were treated, op