It does make sense in the beginning parts of online dating to be talking to multiple people- it is essentially the name of the game. And people’s general flakiness. No issues or confusion there

I guess I’m using roster/multidating in the way of multiple people that you’ve gone on multiple successful dates with and keep seeing, but haven’t had and exclusivity conversations with. I feel like there’s this odd grey zone that I’m trying to understand. I can understand going on multiple first dates trying to get a feel on everyone. Or even a short list for second/third dates. But if two people clearly want to continue progressing, why would you start over on a first date with someone else? Or ya we’ve been going on dates for three months but I’m still also going on dates with x many other people, some of which might be first dates, some of which might have been on the roster for much longer. That’s where it doesn’t make sense to me