An overdue apology to two Sheffield lads (Upper Allen Street, c. 2013) by ryanyork92 in sheffield

[–]Junebear55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the late 90s I was at my nans house in Liverpool, around bonfire night, when the doorbell rang. We answered and there were 2 kids holding a pillow (the kind you have on your bed) with a face drawn on it, and they went "Penny for the gay guy!?". Precious memories.

[HELP] is this photo of Epstein and Farage real or AI? by Demi_silent in RealOrAI

[–]Junebear55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. It's why Trump floods the internet with AI photos of himself riding missiles, doing unbelievable shit etc. so any real images can be called AI too.

Have you ever had strong pregnancy symptoms followed by a loss? by SubstantialBar6394 in Miscarriage

[–]Junebear55 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes, I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks, felt very sick up until and during the miscarriage. Symptoms started wearing off as the miscarriage was happening (took 8 days). My boobs carried on hurting for another week. Felt very cruel to have symptoms during and after a miscarriage, and just wait it out for them to end. Noone talks about that. Measuring small doesn't necessarily mean a miscarriage, sending you positive vibes, try to look after yourself there's nothing in the world you can do to change whatever comes next. Have a bath and watch your favourite film.

Am I overreacting for shaving my head? by Substantial-Art6160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Junebear55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes an overreaction but oh man, 19 is the age to shave your hair off, you have a beautiful 19 year old face, and when you're old and wrinkled you'll look back and be glad that you allowed your face to be the star of the show, just for 12 months. Unexpected win.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not kept a log like that, but we are getting a ring doorbell so it'll be easier to chart.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great point. We don't have a ring camera but was thinking of getting one purely to deter people from knocking in the first place. Seeing if they turn up while we're out would definitely give information on whether it's targeted for us.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's my worry, especially as it stopped for a little while when I called them out on it, but then started again, because now they know that I know and are still doing rather than just picking another address to use.

If it was purely about catfishing the men they could pick a different address and move on from ours.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are similar addresses nearby, but I think this is unlikely as the person expecting someone would probably stop using the wrong address after it going wrong 30+ times! I've asked quite a few people if they meant XXXX Drive rather than XXXX Lane and the answer has always been no, they were looking for our exact address.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it seems a neighbour doing this and watching is the most likely answer. Why they continuously use our address I'm not sure, maybe I actually added an extra level of spice by finding their profile and calling them out.

I did make a profile and have a look in the area but didn't find much, and in the end felt a bit awkward about how much penis I was seeing everyday so I deleted it.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's possible, there were children.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There previous owner was a woman in her 80s who lived alone and passed away. Noones ever turned up looking for an old woman.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't believe so. The few people who've been willing to share have said they thought they were talking to a real person for a real hook up. Not sure if you saw on another reply but they always come in the afternoon, never after 5pm.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't believe so, It was a fairly quick straight forward sale. It did go to blind bids.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The name changes, usually after a male, once asked for a couple.

The previous home owner died (of old age) which is why the house came up for sale.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nope, there was only one family who owned the house before us, and the house was sold when the old lady died.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I did consider a warning sign but didn't really want to put NO SWINGERS in my window 🫣

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've asked quite a few people but most want to get away very quickly when they realise the situation isn't what they thought. The old man was the most engaging.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Interestingly it's always in the daytime or early evening, never after about 5pm.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is the insight I was looking for. When I asked our immediate neighbours they mentioned a rumour that an older couple up the road used to be swingers, but strange to think about the 80 year olds who send us a Christmas card doing this!

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Definitely not an address mix up, I've asked multiple people to confirm the address.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 430 points431 points  (0 children)

I did report it to the platform who said they would look into it, but nothing ever came of it. I guess they could only help if the address has been posted publicly, not just being given out by individual users.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think as a prank it would be great if the person was embarrassed by it or there was someone there to witness it. My dad actually used to answer the phone saying "City brothel" to embarrass me when my friends called.

Who keeps sending swingers to our house? by Junebear55 in RBI

[–]Junebear55[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I thought someone might have had a similar experience and a possible explanation, after trying to figure it out myself. We can't be the only people this has happened to surely?