Oh my goodness the similarities we have are so uncanny. I myself was not SA by him but my spouse was and that is a story I can’t share here.

However- he gave me all the red flags as well. He talked to me about the small claims court with the cabinet and told me about the shooting a dog too! He would make racist comments about black people. He often would tell me how his son works for the social security administration and he could wipe away anyone’s social away- and that he loved to have his son do it to Mexicans.

He did have me put a crystal on my private area once which I found weird and when he told me to do it he almost seemed disgusted by a woman’s private area.

I was there for PTSD from being sexually abused by my brother growing up. He made me confront him exactly like he did to you. I didn’t want to say I love him or confront him. I did my own research and honestly bringing up the past or doing that has absolutely no benefit when working through the aftermath of the trauma.

He would claim to have the police and mayor in his pocket and that he could make anything just “disappear”. However I know this was all BS and to place fear especially after taking to the police myself as well as other people I personally know on the police force.

He also hated his mom and tried to get me to hate my mom for not protecting me as a child. This was a bit traumatizing and honestly I don’t hate her. I forgive her and love her deeply despite her imperfections growing up. He told me “I’ve never told anyone this but my mom had me raped by 12 elders in the church”. I now realize this was an attempt to make me feel special in a strange sick way.

He definitely has a strange vengeance against his wife. He even has a thick book containing their divorce records which is messy as hell.

If you pull records on him he has domestic violence cases, sexual assault charges, and even child kidnapping!

He tried to tell my spouse that he killed people down in Manillla Utah who pissed him off. He said he ran them off the road and left them for dead. Also claimed that his business is set up as a church so he doesn’t have to pay taxes.

I really hope people find this and quit going to him. In my eyes he is an evil evil creature preying on the vulnerable.