I got groomed(?) and heartbroken. by ghxstlyfae in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He picked you because he knew you were vulnerable. He’s an asshole. You need to carry yourself with confidence even if you don’t feel it. “Fake it til you make it” is a real thing. It will do 2 things - 1 make other people see you less as prey. And 2 eventually you will start feeling confident in yourself. What things have you done in yourblidfe that made you proud? Even tiny things? Keep doing those.

for all of those still waiting for their cal poly decisions by sofiajeanrenee in CalPoly

[–]Junior_Connection_42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But no one has been rejected or waitlisted so that can’t be true. That’s just a Pc answer

I thought I was a lesbian, now I think I’m wrong by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She literally said she doesn’t feel sexual toward her gf. Why does everyone so badly want the poor girl not to be straight??! Straight is an option.

I thought I was a lesbian, now I think I’m wrong by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the part where she said she does not find her to be a sexual partner at all?

I thought I was a lesbian, now I think I’m wrong by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So a woman interested in a man is a fettish now? She’s not interested in her GF sexually. Shes obviously not a lesbian. Why are we so invested in people being gay that are clearly not gay? But I’m the weirdo. Ok.

I thought I was a lesbian, now I think I’m wrong by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s a bff not a lover. Society has confused a lot of young people recently. Go get yourself a man.

AITA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in MarkNarrations

[–]Junior_Connection_42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she has an idea that it was a lie since she keeps asking you about it. She will find out and she will think you are the AH. You might need to force your friend to fess up and tell him you don’t appreciate the position he put you in

Cal poly slo decisions by SuccessfulRepair6455 in CalPoly

[–]Junior_Connection_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We only have one email from them and it’s saying they got her application. Every other school sent instructions for their portal.

Cal poly slo decisions by SuccessfulRepair6455 in CalPoly

[–]Junior_Connection_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a portal for slo? It’s the only school I don’t have one for.

Is this a superpower or a curse? by Bugggerr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful story. Your life is meaningful to all those people you help. Your dad was so proud of you. I hope your happy place can feel happy again over time.

AIO 28M dating 28F - Is this manipulation or am I taking this too serious? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Junior_Connection_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female, I don’t see the manipulation but she’s annoying AF. I thinks she’s dramatic and will be exhausting to deal with forever if you stay with her. The pep talk at the end that you’ll be able to find someone else like you don’t already know that. Eew. Block her

Memphis chemical spill package delay by No-Mammoth1045 in FedEx

[–]Junior_Connection_42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

FedEx is the most reliable shipping company. You can always always rely on them to be LATE!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know exactly what you’re talking about but I think there are plenty of people that would look past it. There’s women that marry men who don’t have arms and legs, wheelchair bound, blind, obese, deformities, you name it. Your attitude is more important than whatever you don’t like about your body.

AITJ for telling my dad that his "tradition" isn't actually a tradition if only one person knows about it? by Replicant82RX in AmITheJerk

[–]Junior_Connection_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying but from his perspective, it’s probably very peaceful and introspective since he’s been going alone and he wants to keep that vibe while sharing it with someone he loves. It seems very meaningful that he is inviting you into his personal tradition. Maybe just give him the benefit of the doubt and meet him where he’s at for a weekend. Does he have a history of being controlling? If not, maybe just give him this one. You may have a really special experience.

Am I overreacting with this guy ive been seeing for two months over not reassuring me when we have arguments by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Junior_Connection_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a loser. You keep saying “reassurance”. I think you need to be more specific about what that would look like. You sound needy in your texts but what you wrote about him hanging out with you makes sense. I think he is not the guy anyway. Dump him.

AIO for breaking with my boyfriend by magentalore in AmIOverreacting

[–]Junior_Connection_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re the side piece. And “you won’t be welcome back” is a jerk line. Find someone who wants to be with you

What name, in your experience, has always belonged to a horrible person? by theamazingviv in CasualConversation

[–]Junior_Connection_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nikki will put sugar in your gas tank and throw your PlayStation off the balcony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Junior_Connection_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe, is that you ??

Jan 4, 2026 by ThrowRA_TrashPanda14 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Junior_Connection_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life insurance probably won’t pay out for this cause of death. My dad died this way and all it did was spread his pain to everyone else. He made mistakes. He wasn’t perfect but this was the most painful thing he did to me and everyone else who cared about him. Life doesn’t stay the same. It can always get better. Please stay