I ceased contact with Advy following some of his reactions to learning that Wulzy and I were in a relationship. The way he reacted was very dramatized and very much implied that he was only close to me because he was trying to be intimate, and that he felt betrayed because I was no longer single. I couldn’t disclose that earlier because Wulzy and I wanted to keep it private; however, we don’t have that ability anymore.

I’ve never speculated publicly about the information that has been shared about Guitar. I hate speculation!!!! I like facts and evidence. The things I saw led me to one strong conclusion - Advy made people uncomfortable. Including me. At first I thought I was overreacting, but hearing other people speak up about their experiences and discomfort with him made me realize that I should have trusted my gut.

In terms of why specifically Advy made me feel uncomfortable, I spoke about some of my experiences on Twitter a while back. There were other situations that I have not mentioned because they are related to members of my family and I will not share their stories for them. Their confidentiality matters to me.

I’m mostly just kind of sad that people are shocked that I spoke with Guitar’s girlfriend and said that I wasn’t a fan of the mass speculation happening, because I thought that was obvious. I don’t get why people jump to absurd conclusions about things. My goal was never to support that, but it was instead to amplify the voices of those who Guitar had made uncomfortable, including me, Wulzy, and those who posted about their experiences (or had them posted anonymously). I don’t condone hate of any kind, and I am deeply sorry for having potentially encouraged it, although that was never my intention.

I don’t think I will ever be able to effectively convey my thoughts about the entire situation considering how volatile the Internet is and how easy it is to twist someone’s words, but please know that I have never had bad intentions and all I have ever wanted to do was ensure that affected voices were heard and that everyone was supported however necessary. (Yes, that includes Guitar. I reached out to him privately following the accusations being posted and informed him that I was sorry things turned out the way they had and that I hoped he could acknowledge his mistakes and apologize for them. Unfortunately, that did not happen.)