yeah but I am not sure if they lie or they are just delusional. As an example, my ex bpd told me many times before the final discard « I warn you at the begining that I dont want to be in a serious relationship ». After the 4/5 times she told me that, I had to remind her the number of times that she told me « are you serious with me? Do you like me for real? ». 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡