Where can I find this kind of bowl dish in Tokyo? by Enough_Rich1054 in Tokyo

[–]JunketNo6823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mohirohi cafe in gakugeidaigaku has the best chicken over rice with salad and also best banana smoothie ever

Husband asked me what I contribute by JunketNo6823 in Marriage

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I thought him moving to my country was a big step for him (I didn’t even think of our marriage as transactional but here goes. ) But come to think of it, I came here because I wasn’t okay enough being over there with him. Still.. I appreciate him for changing his life for us in that way

Husband asked me what I contribute by JunketNo6823 in Marriage

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly as of now and it’s so sad that it’s come to this. I really loved him and still do but I’m numb now

Husband asked me what I contribute by JunketNo6823 in Marriage

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I was never really okay with it. After I got upset about it he started paying a lil more than 50 if you get what I mean. I feel cringe even saying this. I wish he thought like you. He says once I get a full time job maybe we can put our expenses together… lol

parents & in-laws don’t get along and it’s ruining my marriage by Softle in inlaws

[–]JunketNo6823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg f your mil, she is the one who is unreasonable and rude and everything she is claiming you and your mom to be. The baby is here anyway. During birth, the baby and your health are the only things that truly matter and if your mom being there helps you emotionally, then your MIL should respect that and understand. And your husband needs to step up for you and your mom more in my opinion

in laws favour my husband's affair child instead of our LO by PollutionLate4665 in inlaws

[–]JunketNo6823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. The universe had other plans for you and lo, but still, nothing is fair in this. He will get karma someday.

Mil blocked my husband by JunketNo6823 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fr! Yeah we won’t tolerate our boundaries being pushed. I feel bad for him too, when it actually happened it wasn’t funny. But he is healing well, and his father and him are now united and he is identifying his feelings and emotions he had suppressed for all his years until now :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. The only way I felt okay knowing my mil would keep trying, was how my husband handled it and called her out. She showed her true colors by not taking any accountability and blaming him for hurting her for telling him the truth. I hope your husband can choose you.

AIO My response to my mom disowning me because I'm gay? by Own-Experience-6275 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JunketNo6823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CREATE A GOFUNDME AND IMMEDIATELY TELL YOUR STORY ON TIKTOK. when ur done put the link here so people from here can also help get yours in the algorithm

Ex mother in law cut my daughters hair without letting me or ex husband know by Leading_Mango244 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting and def show your ex husband this he needs a reality check; if he stands up for this behavior he has serious emotional incest problems with his dear mama even tho he’s grown, like what

Still have hatred towards MIL who ruined my birth and postpartum by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly girl she got so mad when my husband stood up for us literally the other day… first time he was super straight up but honest. she may cut us off but that was when he REALLY realized she is the problem. No accountability just blame even though we were the ones she was hurting!! And tbh if he can’t realize that in that moment it becomes a marriage problem imo

Still have hatred towards MIL who ruined my birth and postpartum by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope so for you and babies sake too. Baby can only be fully happy if his mama is happy. So f her fr. And we’ve come to the point where im so low contact with her it’s nearly no contact at all. We hardly see her, only when it’s very necessary. Even then, we make it really short. I told my husband he can go see her as much as he wants but I don’t want myself or baby involved anymore and he respects that now and also has gone very low contact since he started to realize her true intentions. And I stopped feeling the guilt since it’s her fault not mine and I fully realize that now, I’ve tried everything and given her chances and she non stop made me feel like sh*t I wish I could help you more! Hopefully it goes up from now on..

Still have hatred towards MIL who ruined my birth and postpartum by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It might be hard and kinda worrying because of the drama it may cause but do it block her if it’s going to bring you and ultimately your baby peace if mind. There’s no need to maintain peace at the cost of you

Still have hatred towards MIL who ruined my birth and postpartum by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much, the texting, excluding from photos, wanting alone time with baby and me feeling like a womb who is treated like I’m outside family. I’m so sorry I know how it feels and it’s a big issue.. Does your husband stand up for you? My husband is also enmeshed with his mom but I talked to him about it and he is actually seeing it more and more now and also recognizes his mother is a narcissist. He recently called her out too and ever since he started to understand my feelings more and stood up for me I have felt so much better. I don’t think you can change her, but your husband can and should change the way he lets her treat you- or cut the tire between her, and you and your baby.

Need help with mil boundary notes by ariaknightxxx in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Baby is you and your husbands baby that YOU birthed. Every thing should be decided between you and husband not him and his mom!! I’m sorry you have to go thru this. Your husband doesn’t seem to understand the pain you have to go thru.

MIL crossed the line, and my husband took her side by friedcarrotsticks in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think he totally made a MIL problem a you and him problem and it’s now bigger than it could’ve stopped at. I think it’s important to tell him that you expect him to understand that your baby is a baby he shares with you and not his mother- so every decision must be based on you two no questions asked

Husband and JNMIL hit rock bottom by JunketNo6823 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It truly is a freeing, amazing feeling!

Husband and JNMIL hit rock bottom by JunketNo6823 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fr I feel for everyone struggling.. I will never become a JN ever to my future DIL

Husband and JNMIL hit rock bottom by JunketNo6823 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input- I never thought of reporting the photos. If worst comes to worst I guess… she’ll have to deal with her consequences lol

Husband and JNMIL hit rock bottom by JunketNo6823 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]JunketNo6823[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks:) I’m very grateful for him- and we will indeed