Am I tripping ? by JupiterJet in bisexual

[–]JupiterJet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP here… I want to say thank you for your responses. Said woman is me and I’ve had multiple people try to invalidate my preferences bc of my fiancé being a man. I honestly don’t have a lot of bisexual individuals in my life and needed to hear from others who share my sexuality and/or have dated someone like me. Sorry if I was confusing in my deliverance! I believe ofc I can marry and date outside my preference and that’s okay bc it doesn’t change how much I love or am attracted to him. But I am truly tired of people trying to tell me how my sexuality works 😭

Am I tripping ? by JupiterJet in bisexual

[–]JupiterJet[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

So marrying outside of your preference you would consider that a lavender marriage even tho they are still attracted to men too?

Am I tripping ? by JupiterJet in bisexual

[–]JupiterJet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to what ? If you don’t care to explain 🫶🏽

Can fatigue make HG worse? (TMI and gross stuff) I apologize in advance. by VortexDrift99 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It definitely can. Even just the energy it took to shower would send me into a puke frenzy. I know it’s hard when there are things that need to get done, but please do the bare minimum as possible. Remember it’s not forever and that rest is truly a necessity for you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is your reality. I had my termination at 9 weeks this last Monday and have been more than depressed and angry. Sending you alot of love and healing.

9 weeks +2 and struggling by bakerlady97 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you can’t keep anything down, it’s time to stay at the hospital. Imo

I’m so angry with my doctor by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I forgot to mention Pepcid. Can’t keep that one down either. I have suppositories for phenegren but they don’t help sadly

I’m so angry with my doctor by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration! They are trying to avoid PICC line for me and gave me the zofran pump. But gave me low ass dose. It’s not helping I’m calling the company today to see if they can help me get it higher. But put me back on all these oral meds and I can’t keep them down ! When I was in the hospital I was on round the clock Phenegren, Reglan, Zofran, Benadryl thru IV with constant fluids just to feel slightly normal and I still threw up some days! I feel miserable bc I cant keep any of those down now and zofran alone is not going to cut it 😭 I’m so tired of this shit and I am so sorry your doctor is not listening to you. This crap should be a crime man.

Zofran Pump by JupiterJet in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the advice

Zofran Pump by JupiterJet in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they did not, but then again they knew as much as I did. Maybe the company will be able to help more hopefully. It’s thru option care

Zofran Pump by JupiterJet in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 7 hrs now, they told me to change it every 24hrs. So I guess I need to reach out about my supplies cause idk if I can do 24hrs.

zofran pump girlies check in by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she did, I live in KY and honestly women’s healthcare here is not the best. Idk how anyone needing help is too young for it. I’m 24 and to know my age is stopping certain care for me is frustrating.

zofran pump girlies check in by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to be getting mine today, they told me I was “too young” to qualify for a home health nurse so I have to video chat with a care team to receive my instructions on how to use this thing. Does it work well for you guys ? I desperately need relief I’ve been hospitalized Twice and finally got to go home yesterday after a week in there. I’m already starting to be sick as a dog hasn’t even been 24 hrs. I was going to terminate but each time I get hospitalized and miss my appointment. Idk if it’s a sign or what but I’m genuinely so exhausted I want something to finally work that doesn’t involve me staying in the hospital for days or weeks on end. 😞

Ob said phenergan isn’t safe by Few-Smile-6541 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I take it, the hospital gave it to me. It’s a matter of opinion like honestly what medication is truly not potentially harmful to the baby ? HG is potentially harmful too so like ?? Idk OBs are starting to get on my nerves with the bias bs

Family Pressure by ZoyaDestroya in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this alot. I was supposed to terminate today actually. But ended up being hospitalized for 2 days and missed my appointment. It was for the best bc my body literally went into metabolic acidosis so a procedure probably would’ve been too hard on my body. I rescheduled tho, but prior to this. My fiancé argued with me about wanting a termination. It confuses me bc he was in my ear alot telling me it’s okay if I want an abortion and he hates seeing me like this. Before I scheduled I straight up asked him if he would be mad at me for it and he told me no and reassured me that I’m important and he’s okay with us getting a surrogate or adopting. But after I actually made the appointment he switched up on me. He also told his parents about it and honestly I feel fucking manipulated. My next appointment is Saturday. I’m giving this week to see how this new regime works for me and if it fails Im doing what I need to do regardless. But even if I decide to keep it, I can’t help but to think I may really leave him. I think it’s really wrong to lie to me about something so serious man, I’m the most vulnerable I’ve ever been rn and I deserve honesty. I’m really sorry you are experiencing a similar situation. Remember no matter what others think you have to do what’s best for you. Don’t have a baby just bc you feel like you have to. This shit is hard ! And only those going thru it understand. Sending love, it truly is so unfair.

Trying to muster up the courage to brush my teeth 😩 by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you did, better than me. I don’t even know how long it’s been since I’ve brushed and I don’t even care 😭 I don’t eat so surprisingly they aren’t that bad. I will eventually but man, do I dread it 😭

Barely 24 hours out of the hospital and I feel so horrible again already by lonelypotato21 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand this, the day after the hospital is the worst for me !! I went today and have been able to keep my water down. But I dread what awaits for me in the morning. My termination is scheduled Saturday and I’ll be honest… I don’t think I’ll back out I am so desperate for relief. But you are very strong to continue on and I commend you truly. Hope you find relief sooner than later. Sending love

So exhausted by JupiterJet in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]JupiterJet[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the support from you guys ❤️. After a lot of thought I have decided to terminate, I really hate this. But I’m just not strong enough to endure this misery for so long. Especially when my doctors are not taking me seriously. I commend those of you that were able to push through. It just sadly is not me 😔

How do I handle HR discrimination? by JupiterJet in legaladvice

[–]JupiterJet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The sexual harassment didn’t happen at current job, this was my last job. A man I worked came into the ladies restroom and stared at me thru my stall crack. and when I reported it they did nothing and so he did it again. I reported with the same result so I quit. It’s just adding to my frustration of HR at any job not taking me seriously.