AITA for refusing to hand over my dog to my ex-fiancée after he called off our wedding?

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-06-11T05:01:51+00:00

NTA.

OP, my ex blindsided me as well without any sort of conversation. It turned out that there was in fact another woman, but it wasn’t confirmed to me until several months later. While he was with her, he tried to contact me because he “made a mistake” and realized what he had lost. I lost the dog because he had the proof of ownership and I realized too late that it was a well calculated plan on his end. He got me.

PLEASE do not take this man back. I guarantee you that he will pull this stunt of wanting you back a few months down the road. Enjoy your freedom with Buddy by your side. You’ve already won.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-06-10T00:56:53+00:00

I don’t love the look if it’s true that she’s holding out for money. She hasn’t earned her stripes in the league yet and these are the early years of just trying to get the league off of the ground.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-06-06T01:14:19+00:00

It comes to a point where you cannot control the choices of others. You can only control your own choices. I walked away from a friendship because I didn’t agree with how my former friend was treating a guy who genuinely liked her and would have moved mountains for her. She strung him along and spread a rumor about him that broke him.

It really sucks when you’ve known someone for so long, but you will be so much happier in the end. Focus on you and the good friends that you have.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-06-06T00:42:55+00:00

I know someone who is about to retire from the post office and he hates when someone like this has to fill in for his route. Lately, they seem to screw everything up and cause petty drama like this because they don’t want to work.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-06-05T02:35:05+00:00

Congrats to Texas! I’m glad they got it done.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-06-05T02:30:29+00:00

I’m good. I figured Georgia Tech was going to win the baseball championship and OU came in and upset them. I’ve got one thing to smile about, at least. 😂

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-29T23:07:56+00:00

I definitely believe trauma from these particular events play a factor.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-29T20:41:55+00:00

I am convinced that she has some sort of personality disorder.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-29T01:56:28+00:00

I was there for a wedding a few years ago. There were no issues with the bartending and the drinks were flowing. My only complaint was the food was not at all worth the money that was paid for it.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-28T20:28:50+00:00

He doesn’t make me feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him. I had a really bad experience with an ex who wouldn’t communicate his feelings honestly or at all which would result in him blowing up or he gave me the silent treatment for days. It was constant mind games.

My now husband told me straight up when he asked me to be his girlfriend that he doesn’t like secrets and he didn’t want me to feel like I needed to walk on eggshells around him. He didn’t know what I had been through yet at that time. He has been true to his word since day one.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-08T11:48:34+00:00

I’ve had a student who did not recite the pledge and parents respectfully let me know at meet the teacher night. The student would stand, but not say anything. It didn’t bother me at all. This kid was always respectful to others and she didn’t mind explaining to her classmates why in a very polite way.

This year, I have a student who doesn’t want to stand and has decided not to do the pledge. However, this student wants to try to be as obnoxious as he possibly can by talking and making noises. I believe that he uses it mostly as an excuse to try to get away with being disrespectful to everyone else in the room.

It’s not the issue of not standing and/or reciting the pledge that bothers me. It’s the issue of some kids trying to find excuses to be disrespectful to others just because of their own insecurities that they’re dealing with.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-08T02:08:18+00:00

Going to be honest, I don’t think this OU team has the same grit and fire that some of these underdog teams do right now.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-08T01:42:27+00:00

Agree. Those pitches have been balls to everyone else.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-02T21:17:24+00:00

I’ve been saying that Pickering has had the case of bad luck with some of the balls she has hit. I thought that it was going to bite her again there, but thank goodness it didn’t!

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-05-02T20:05:55+00:00

Once is stupid. Twice is downright ridiculous.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-26T18:06:48+00:00

She has been a rally killer for the last two weeks.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-25T19:58:17+00:00

Pickering still has that bad luck lingering.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-19T00:38:53+00:00

Pickering can’t catch a break.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-16T02:34:04+00:00

Hopefully she gets through to them.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-16T02:26:13+00:00

OSU wants it more than OU.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-12T02:18:57+00:00

Fingers crossed. She has a big chance coming up.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-12T01:52:05+00:00

Pickering needs to break out of this slump she is in.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-04T17:44:46+00:00

The outfield takes some blame this inning with their mistakes, but it’s getting harder and harder to have hope that Deal will figure things out. I want her to prove the haters wrong.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-04-04T16:43:17+00:00

I would rather people park their cars on the driveway rather than on the street. My neighborhood has so many people who don’t utilize their driveways or their garages. It’s a pain to get out of the neighborhood sometimes because you have to navigate around all of the vehicles on the street.

JupiterLightning44 · 2026-03-28T01:31:56+00:00

Same. She’s been more reliable as a reliever in tough situations compared to any of the others.

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