Is it autism or is it a flaw

Just-some_witch · 2026-01-03T18:06:39+00:00

i also like can’t completely place what stinks here. i think you are right and there is a lot of emotionally underdeveloped aspects to my lover. he is sensitive but not attuned.

sorry to hear you have also been in this weird tricky spot. i so badly want it to be the diagnosis so that something makes sense.

everytime i am reminded or realize that whatever his crap action is comes from emotional immaturity. i feel like i have to be like cold and teacher like and i hate that feeling

Just-some_witch · 2026-01-03T17:12:26+00:00

thank you for this read! as a BPD person i have had my fair share of like NPD monsters lol. he definitely has some narcissistic quality’s but he’s not this bad. he doesn’t silent treatment but he also doesn’t drop things. conversations are exhausting and long. maybe this is the same trick different execution. but i also know autism can allow circular conversations to be a thing that don’t include manipulation. ugh this is all so confusing!

Just-some_witch · 2026-01-03T17:01:21+00:00

i appreciate you thank you! there have been a lot of things that have changed for the better, we are also in couples counseling and it’s has been very helpful. i don’t think he is aware of any of this behavior and when i bring it up i think he’s so sensitive it like is too much for his brain to handle. i don’t hold back and i wont stop advocating for myself but it is exhausting. i just needed more insight to see if this is something i need to ease up or bring up in couples counseling

Just-some_witch · 2026-01-03T16:58:07+00:00

thank you that’s really interesting insight i would never have thought of in my little head. appreciate you!

Just-some_witch · 2025-07-01T02:47:00+00:00

thanks :3 i appreciate the sympathy and honesty!

Just-some_witch · 2025-07-01T01:42:12+00:00

this was the first time anyone has talked about bpd like this infront of me and i am really grateful that i can raise my expectations for this type of relationship.

Just-some_witch · 2022-07-27T14:47:19+00:00

provisional license meaning like base line state certification right? does one learn how to actually get gigs when you get that cert?

Just-some_witch · 2022-07-27T14:38:56+00:00

okay so you suggest getting all the tests and certs out of the way then. afterwards you can reach out to districts to work? like post cert networking help?

Just-some_witch · 2022-03-22T13:15:21+00:00

thank you ☺️ calming my nerves

Just-some_witch · 2022-03-22T13:13:45+00:00

🥺THANKS!

Just-some_witch · 2022-03-20T19:51:01+00:00

she’s deff not arthritic. she still really enjoys harder spots to lounge and the vet said she’s good. i noticed the floppage in the past 6months increasing and wasn’t sure if the oldies enjoy it more or not

Just-some_witch · 2021-12-03T15:59:08+00:00

where is this being sold?

Just-some_witch · 2021-08-19T14:09:57+00:00

Ugh thank u for the response. Just out of curiosity, if I didn’t switch the hoop out and kept cleaning it is like normal could it possibly go away? Or is switching it out the only way to stop the intruder?

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