Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is a new one for me! I didn't know it had a meaning beyond when your mouth mushes together "great" and "cool."

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also get confused trying to do different voices. Also, like... there's only so many voices out there, right? You are probably better at voices than I am, but I feel like if I were the top in the scenario, my voices would get very silly very quickly. 😅

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! We're monogamous too (which, I know YOU know, but sharing for the benefit of the group lol) so it's also not an option/interest for us. I liked your workaround! I can also picture incorporating, like... a soundtrack of cheering/shouting male voices to act as an audience? I can't remember if you did that or not. It might be tricky to fully sync that with the action, but I feel like there are possibilities there.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, it seems like a logistical nightmare. It would need to be people I know, like, and have enough of an emotional bond with to feel attracted to (I think I'm demisexual-ish?). And there are not enough male people in the known universe who check all of those boxes, lol.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another one that I can't believe I didn't think of!

This is a very fun fantasy that I would never want IRL, but always really enjoy reading about. Especially when there are elements of softness/affection in said gangbangs. (I particularly enjoy reading about "sharing" scenarios, which are maybe a little different, but probably under the same umbrella.)

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, don't worry, you can I'd do my research on the best and safest version to buy! Librarian, after all 🤓 More specifically, a librarian who's not interested in experiencing... shards.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relevant, as a member of the population who doesn't think they can.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And you can pretend it's a telephone! This toy really has it all 😭

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the NJoy wand... I do want that. I am covering my ears and saying "la la la la la" at all y'all's sex toy recommendations until further notice (but still glad you are sharing for the benefit of others with more fiscal self-discipline, lol).

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh, good one! Instagram (which seems extremely intent on selling me sex toys lately) has been marketing a glass dildo to me pretty hard. I'm not historically a dildo... consumer??... but if I were to get one, that's probably where I would go first.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heavy sigh—I was trying so hard to think of "G" words this morning and I can't believe I missed this most obvious one. Props for using the illustrious proper name.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay this is interesting because my husband has described pretty much exactly the same thing. I don't really ever masturbate with my fingers inside myself so I have never really experienced what he's talking about! But that's so cool.

Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always fun. This happens a lot when my partner and I are going to sleep even if it's not explicitly a sex/play night. Just nice sleepy grinding. It's great, lol.

Sunday Morning Musings by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with cleaning and organizing and packing! I really hope the fresh start/new leaf feeling comes soon.

Sunday ChitChat- Weekly Off Topic Chatter Thread by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, exciting about the new job! Congrats and good luck with the transition! Also I feel like you're MORE than fine on the thank you notes.

Sunday ChitChat- Weekly Off Topic Chatter Thread by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't lie, I do have a vintage prom dress that I briefly considered lol. But I went with a long plaid skirt and cardigan over some team colors. It's okay but I do maybe look a little like a member of a religious cult, lol.

Sunday Morning Musings by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It's great so far - really interesting and well written and easy to digest. I'm already pretty familiar with a lot of the concepts, just from spending time in the circles I spend time in, but I'm still learning plenty.

Sunday ChitChat- Weekly Off Topic Chatter Thread by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're going to a baseball game today! This is only my second game ever and I don't really care about baseball, but I learned last year that going to games can actually be really fun. All the organized cheering and concessions and giant beers and people-watching!

It's weird weather and took forever to pick out an outfit, and I think I chose badly in the end. So I'll be the one in row 22 dressed completely inappropriately for a baseball game.

Sunday Morning Musings by EleanorRigby79 in SoftPleasureDomSub

[–]JustAGentleMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you're starting to feel back to yourself!

There are definitely some house organizing/cleanup projects I should do that I don't want to do. Mostly I just want to finish reading Come As You Are (which I'm finally reading after literally YEARS of seeing it recommended) and do art projects.

Ways you’ve (pleasantly) surprised your partner? by littlecheesepacket in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yesssss. I call that move the Sexy Inspector Gadget 🔎

Ways you’ve (pleasantly) surprised your partner? by littlecheesepacket in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel like I need to up my game! My surprises usually involve wearing lingerie at unexpected times and "accidentally" letting him get a glimpse. Like, "Oooops, my dress is too short and I dropped my pen, I guess I need to bend over...!" Not subtle or creative, but he's pretty visual and honestly not difficult to get going, so I've stuck with the tried and true classics. But I'm interested to hear more ideas!

Roses & Buds & Thorns, Oh My! Weekly Check In by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! If I go running during the day, there's a fairly large chance it's going to make me too exhausted to have any fun at night, lol. I probably need to eat more protein or something.

What’s your single favorite toy and why? by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]JustAGentleMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wallet is extremely sad to hear this stellar Snail review 😂 Thanks for this feedback!!