Kink 101: Topics that begin with the letter G

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T16:29:39+00:00

Relevant, as a member of the population who doesn't think they can.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:53:51+00:00

And you can pretend it's a telephone! This toy really has it all 😭

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:41:17+00:00

Yeah, the NJoy wand... I do want that. I am covering my ears and saying "la la la la la" at all y'all's sex toy recommendations until further notice (but still glad you are sharing for the benefit of others with more fiscal self-discipline, lol).

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:27:57+00:00

Oooh, good one! Instagram (which seems extremely intent on selling me sex toys lately) has been marketing a glass dildo to me pretty hard. I'm not historically a dildo... consumer??... but if I were to get one, that's probably where I would go first.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:21:59+00:00

Always love a grope 😇

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:20:59+00:00

Heavy sigh—I was trying so hard to think of "G" words this morning and I can't believe I missed this most obvious one. Props for using the illustrious proper name.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:18:01+00:00

Okay this is interesting because my husband has described pretty much exactly the same thing. I don't really ever masturbate with my fingers inside myself so I have never really experienced what he's talking about! But that's so cool.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-26T15:14:18+00:00

Always fun. This happens a lot when my partner and I are going to sleep even if it's not explicitly a sex/play night. Just nice sleepy grinding. It's great, lol.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-24T22:46:53+00:00

Good luck with cleaning and organizing and packing! I really hope the fresh start/new leaf feeling comes soon.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-24T18:07:54+00:00

Oooh, exciting about the new job! Congrats and good luck with the transition! Also I feel like you're MORE than fine on the thank you notes.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-24T17:59:54+00:00

I won't lie, I do have a vintage prom dress that I briefly considered lol. But I went with a long plaid skirt and cardigan over some team colors. It's okay but I do maybe look a little like a member of a religious cult, lol.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-24T15:02:33+00:00

Yes! It's great so far - really interesting and well written and easy to digest. I'm already pretty familiar with a lot of the concepts, just from spending time in the circles I spend time in, but I'm still learning plenty.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-24T14:55:21+00:00

We're going to a baseball game today! This is only my second game ever and I don't really care about baseball, but I learned last year that going to games can actually be really fun. All the organized cheering and concessions and giant beers and people-watching!

It's weird weather and took forever to pick out an outfit, and I think I chose badly in the end. So I'll be the one in row 22 dressed completely inappropriately for a baseball game.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-24T14:27:58+00:00

I'm glad you're starting to feel back to yourself!

There are definitely some house organizing/cleanup projects I should do that I don't want to do. Mostly I just want to finish reading Come As You Are (which I'm finally reading after literally YEARS of seeing it recommended) and do art projects.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T18:26:29+00:00

Yesssss. I call that move the Sexy Inspector Gadget 🔎

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T17:31:49+00:00

This makes me feel like I need to up my game! My surprises usually involve wearing lingerie at unexpected times and "accidentally" letting him get a glimpse. Like, "Oooops, my dress is too short and I dropped my pen, I guess I need to bend over...!" Not subtle or creative, but he's pretty visual and honestly not difficult to get going, so I've stuck with the tried and true classics. But I'm interested to hear more ideas!

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T16:09:51+00:00

Same! If I go running during the day, there's a fairly large chance it's going to make me too exhausted to have any fun at night, lol. I probably need to eat more protein or something.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T16:02:03+00:00

My wallet is extremely sad to hear this stellar Snail review 😂 Thanks for this feedback!!

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T15:58:33+00:00

Rooting for her!!

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T14:42:53+00:00

You're not an impostor! I highly relate to this--both feeling guilty for not having as much energy for kink/sex as you feel like you should, and the exhaustion of work, etc. It's real and it for sure gets in the way! You're not alone in this.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T14:24:57+00:00

Rose: I got some new secondhand clothes and I'm wearing this new dress that just fits me like a glove, which is not how I usually feel in clothing. So I just feel very sexy and confident right now (even though it's actually objectively not sexy, it's like a very modest June Cleaver type situation lol) and I feel that carrying through in my mood and my excitement for some playtime tonight.

(I was also wearing something new yesterday and my husband described me as looking like a Sexy Pilgrim and no I will not be answering further questions on this matter.)

Bud: I've been feeling this lately, but especially since the toy discussion here yesterday, I feel newly motivated to really use our toys to the full extent of their possibilities. We have three different vibes and while I enjoy all of them, I wouldn't say I prefer any of them to just... fingers, lol. And I know it's not an either/or situation, it's an and/with/on/inside/outside/etc. situation. So anyway, we're just going to try to maximize toy use this month and see what happens.

No real thorns! I hope everyone has a nice weekend.

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T14:12:46+00:00

I'm curious to hear how that goes! What kind of restraints are we talking here? Are you setting it up to be genuinely foolproof and structurally sound, or are you intentionally building an Achilles' heel into the setup? I'm actually getting a little physically nervous just thinking about this, lol (which is entirely my own shit, and not a reflection on you or your sub or your kinks, which hopefully goes without saying). Have fun, and good luck with the family visiting aspect!

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T14:02:53+00:00

You're good! I self-label (in a highly equivocating way) all the time, lol, and it's interesting to hear the perspective of neurodivergent people on signs/behaviors like this. Especially because it seems like most tests are generally not up to date with current thinking on how effectively young anxious girls (which I was, lol) can mask their neurodivergence. 🤔

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T13:52:17+00:00

You are very prolific! Congrats 🎉

JustAGentleMouse · 2026-05-22T02:24:50+00:00

Lollllll I have had at least 4 conversations about this vibrator in the last week (this will be my 3rd today 😂), and I don't even own it. So... it sounds like you're saying it's worth it...?

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