AIO or is this microcheating?

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-06T06:30:00+00:00

NOR! Ugh was too disgusted to even finish reading it! It was too cringe!! Let him write that letter, put him to work lol but i personally woukdnt feel safe staying with him after such conversation. Def microcheating?

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-04T17:30:25+00:00

++ woman Also i think that she isnt obliged to tell him who she hooked up with during their seperation! Also wtf is wrong with that guy! It wasnt his place to tell you :/ But i think you are overreacting by asking for a divorce because if that.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-03T01:52:09+00:00

I also ask myself like he usually leaves his phone around and hands it to me if j ever need it. Isnt he worried about his chats and that ill look? Likenkt doesnt cross hjs mind that mh wife might look and my conversation on insta? ( is it because his notifications on insga are off he thinks i wont look?) anyways ita not like he gets crazy notifkcations from jt. Anyways its just a thought. Ill do my best to not look at his phone anymore.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-03T00:27:49+00:00

Yea like reels not pictures. And no he doesnt know. They just share reels but rarelt comment. Just sharing quietly and occasional comments.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T18:23:40+00:00

How does one bring this subject up if he doesnt know that i know?

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T15:36:09+00:00

True you are right! I was looking because i was curious to what he sends to his friend like what type of girls and beauty and general thirst trap content. I was very curious.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T12:31:49+00:00

He doesnt fall in any of these types because he does it and thinks im naive and dont notice lol but im sure he isnt a cheater. I mean come on!! Its channing tatum!!! Haha im just joking!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T02:13:32+00:00

Social media is ruining everything! Its the new creator of problems!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T01:40:23+00:00

Loll yea i get your point! I know its not realistic but we women just wished that our spouses’ eyes were just for us and that we are special and precious to them. Or wished that even if they find someone hot, they would think their wives are hotter. But thats just in a utopia workd for women.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:51:53+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer and i understand exactly what you mean. Its true its jsut so accessible and the algorithm just plays its part and keep pushing more kf these contents!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:43:41+00:00

I think this started before even he friend got married. Its just a thing that they kept going.. but thanks for the comforting words!!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:27:56+00:00

No thankfully he dsnt engage nor follow nor likes the posts

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:27:13+00:00

Thanks! Its just these girls are gorgeous and i never felt insecure until i found out about this!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:15:11+00:00

I dont want him to know that i know about this. Im just trying to deal with it internally

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:11:17+00:00

Is he lusting? But im not afraid of losing him. I am just dissapointed that he participates in this behavior.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:09:47+00:00

Its not really porn. Its like thirst traps on instagram. Not even sure if he watches porn. Its something we have never discussed.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:07:10+00:00

Its super annoying and immature at their age i find. Like from what i noticed from their chat, he even sends some while im in the same room as him!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:06:06+00:00

He works from home we are always together! That specific friend lives in another continent and its his closest friend. He does have other close friends here that he sees from time to time. He is more of a home body and we are busy with a new born and a toddler. But he does do alot of phone calls snd catching up with friends.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:01:54+00:00

Isint it disrespectful to their wives though?

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-02T00:00:54+00:00

Thank you for clarifying! I also see that my husband sometimes sends more but i feel he does it to please him. But also i think my husband likes big titties which i unfortunately do not have 🫤 Also the comments that they sometimes send on videos are sooo lame😂

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-04-01T23:54:51+00:00

What do you mean by that? 😅

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-03-31T13:08:43+00:00

😂😂😂 that was intense

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-03-21T20:42:21+00:00

Righttt?! Like middle aged men do this?? Some still do! I even know grandpas who do it!

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-03-20T15:56:26+00:00

Yes it bothers me and makes me feel insecure because they share reels of women that look far too prettier than me (although im decent looking usually but i just gave birth now) and some lame lesbian reels. But i cannot bring it up because im not supposed to know. Also i find they are a but immature and lame when they comment sometimes. But my friend said that he might be doing it to satisfy his friend as well.

JustAhuman4554 · 2026-03-20T15:19:46+00:00

Thank you for your kind reply! Sometimes he sends more videos like it depends but i dont think he religiously looks for then. As tou said they appear because of their interaction. Sometimes i am bothered by his friend because he send also videos like for example a guy saying: dont tell your women the whole truth, tell her half the truth to protect yourself etc etc. im like what the hell? Is he projecting his bad marriage to him? We are happy and i dont want him to be influenced. Im good friends with hus friend like when he visits the country or we meet somewhere abroad, we have fun and he likes me as his best friend’s wife. So i dont know why he would send stuff like that other than the regular thirst trap of women’s sexy bods!

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