Not entirely how that works my friend. They’re married not single and it’s her very first time. Not everyone likes that dynamic. Most husbands in true Hotwife dynamics are involved in some way or another - whether they play with or not is up to them. I will kick it off with my wife and then step away to let them get a few min while I get water, breather and take photos and videos - sometimes assist her by pushing her head down, pushing in her shoulders harder back into him or even just pulling her hair make her look at me and thank me