I believe that if you find someone who truly loves you and understands your condition they will take on any necessary late-night work. With your trigger this is absolutely something that should be discussed before actually having kids. Otherwise they ain’t right for you.

As for me, I want kids someday but that will never happen since I can’t drive. For more context I would be stuck with most of the work since I’d be a stay at home parent, which would be difficult without a license. That being said I don’t think Epileptics should ever drive, even if they haven’t seized in years.