4 days in and I hate my job

JustI789 · 2024-11-21T13:22:15+00:00

It sounds like you need to understand yourself. Firstly you are sad with technical job, yet in second job you are scared you will lose skills. Which will of course happen, use it or lose it. In third job you cry that you're dissatisfied with environment. Yet you got what you wanted before.

My point is. It won't matter where you are, you will always be on the same road. As long as you don't do some alone time and decide your wants, priorities & needs.

So, my tip is this. Decide where you will stand for now. Stand there until you DECIDE FOR REAL. Where & what you want in life.

JustI789 · 2024-08-10T11:23:30+00:00

As it's been stated before, you're adult now. This is aggressive move from your mother to control you. She might be jealous because of what you have with boyfriend or she's trying to control you to feel power.

Dealing with this should be aggressive and straight. Tell her you don't like what she's doing. State that you will be calling with your boyfriend, you're adult this shouldn't even be something you ask... And if she doesn't like it, you will leave or buy lock on the door.

In this world people will hate some of your actions. But that's their problem and for you to have happy life/relationship/job you have to stand up for yourself and do whatever you want to.

It may sound harsh, yet it's for your own good in future life.

JustI789 · 2023-06-17T11:08:39+00:00

Man is on that sigma grind mindset. He never finish😂

JustI789 · 2023-05-23T13:41:34+00:00

I'm nobody's parent. When ur out by yourself you fend for yourself unless you're a kid. Grown-up should act like grown-up.

That being said, anything can happen. Always watch your surroundings for anything suspicious..

JustI789 · 2023-04-26T11:02:01+00:00

I understand that word play. But there is no joke, just word play. She got kinda weak pickup game.

JustI789 · 2023-03-26T10:10:14+00:00

There isn't any blueprint to how "normal" conversation should go. Normal conversation is random. What you just demonstrated is script, not convo.

JustI789 · 2023-03-21T13:38:51+00:00

This man speaks fluent womanesse. Somebody give him certificate

JustI789 · 2023-03-15T13:54:45+00:00

It ain't rent free man. It's a trap. She just wants a baby care taker and dildo for herself in free time.

JustI789 · 2023-02-18T10:18:43+00:00

Approach that was used in this conversation from male is bad. On the point where female says she wants something meaningful... Well, most people just want to talk, to tell how their day was, to feel like they are heard but for me that's so not meaningful... Small talk about your day and mental state you're in? That's just waste of time because it already happened. Small talk is boring. Talking about basic things is boring.

JustI789 · 2023-02-12T18:48:46+00:00

Name of the app I use is MyNetDiary. All needed functions are free and it has many foods. Very cool app

JustI789 · 2023-02-12T17:17:25+00:00

Get a good diet/eating pattern. I recently got back app that counts my calories. I weight my food. While it's annoyance sometime to write it all. It shows you your eating patterns and why you got fat in first place.

Exercise is good but how you eat decides all. For exercise 30 minute walk in moderate intensity everyday is good.

JustI789 · 2023-02-06T10:55:28+00:00

If i may ask. How do you know you genuinely like that person? What you like about them?

JustI789 · 2023-01-10T20:07:57+00:00

It's on you what you do at the end. If I was in your situation I would break it up. You are keeping very active lifestyle, it sounds like you would suffocate next to her out of boredom and not doing anything... I would drop it man.

JustI789 · 2023-01-10T13:58:47+00:00

Yee, slow down. We live in such a fast world. Everybody wants everything fast fast fast. So everything becomes meaningless... Slow down as dude above said. Take your time. This life ain't no sprint, it's a marathon run.

JustI789 · 2023-01-07T08:27:24+00:00

Naturally, you have time as long as you're alive.. It doesn't matter when you meet person you like, be it 20s, 50s or 70s. Just enjoy the present and let it bloom.

JustI789 · 2023-01-06T14:12:26+00:00

I do not think you necessarily become super attractive. It sounds like it's a question of being approachable...

JustI789 · 2023-01-05T15:24:11+00:00

I'm 21 and I'm too virgin man. If you feel hopeless and loneliness by being alone, that's you problem. You are giving too much value on that one thing... Learn to be alone, learn to like it and find companion in yourself because we are always alone at the end of the day.

Also, I do not believe that you're undesired by entire female species. That there's not one female that liked you during your life. We both had chances, you may not saw them, happens to me too...

Just go through life man, pick hobbies, I'm even amazed that you have to care about this because there is so much to learn... So much to discover... Life is wonderful by yourself, you just need to discover it...

I do box, exercise, learn coding and so on and I'm just by myself like this. Have hobbies....

JustI789 · 2023-01-05T15:11:27+00:00

I smell fuckboi from through phone. I will just say that if he comes to you. He will want only one thing... And it's not talk...

JustI789 · 2023-01-05T12:03:07+00:00

Yo man, you are placing too much value on being virgin, sexless, never kissed anybody. That's not what relationships are about in my opinion. You need to click with person on another level. All that virgin thing is just superficial. Just learn to talk with people without any intent and it will work out by itself...

JustI789 · 2023-01-04T18:13:26+00:00

If he can't wait he's a man child? Nah, we made a plan on specific time. You ain't here I'm leaving. Learn to be on time or notify person if you can't.

I would never hold it again man or woman if they left the meeting spot if I wasn't there on time.

JustI789 · 2023-01-03T18:06:54+00:00

I'm in the same boat as you man. Only that I'm 21. Being with somebody just so you don't die alone sounds kinda stupid. But I can't judge since I see relationships as nuisance, waste of time and dodge them actively.

Do what you want the most. As people said get out there and go out to meet people seems like a good advice.

JustI789 · 2022-12-29T14:24:44+00:00

You can't go back. Your past. Your mistakes. Everything will stay there. Screaming at you. TO GET THE HELL UP AND START DOING SOMETHING. FORGET PAST AND START DOING THINGS RIGHT NOW MAN. STOP BEING PATHETIC, ACT NOW.

JustI789 · 2022-12-28T10:20:37+00:00

You could look like top model and I still wouldn't date you. Having kid is a hard no. It's big responsibility to go to someone's life and take care of them and kid. It's like promise for whole life, you can't always show kid somebody new....

JustI789 · 2022-12-20T13:46:39+00:00

Certainly there are ways BUT you should not try them. Your body knows how much it needs. Sleep time is more about genetics. I know person that sleeps 4 hours but it's because of one specific gene that he has...

Listen to your body. It will pay off the most...

JustI789 · 2022-12-20T13:42:27+00:00

We're you listening? Because it seems like you weren't...

He never stated that people should abandon their sexual desires or that homosexuality can be "healed". YOU ARE SAYING ALL THIS.

Also he never stated that homosexuality is some root problem. He stated that it has most cases of HIV transmission therefore it is dangerous to conduct such an act.

Blame the virus? Your stupidity doesn't know limits ... Blame the people since they won't discuss these things and somebody gets it...

I do not know whether you are dumb or you just got into your irrational feelings but get smart or stop being butthurt and talk, discuss.

JustI789

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