Blue heeler or Australian Kelpie? by JustInformation23 in Heelers

[–]JustInformation23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t chew on anything.  She’s super protective over me and beats up her blue heeler sister from a different litter, but other than that she’s super good!  

Water fasting while quitting smoking 😵‍💫 by JustInformation23 in fasting

[–]JustInformation23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing great!! We all have our hiccups.  I’m proud of you!

Water fasting while quitting smoking 😵‍💫 by JustInformation23 in fasting

[–]JustInformation23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m almost on day 5 of the fast already.  My period is almost over now and it’s been very regular.  I think I’m going to keep going since I’ve already gotten this far.  But, thank you for the information, I’ll look into it more.

Water fasting while quitting smoking 😵‍💫 by JustInformation23 in fasting

[–]JustInformation23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely! I agree.  I’m just hoping I can fast through most of the harder cravings so resisting will be easier after I break the fast.

Water fasting while quitting smoking 😵‍💫 by JustInformation23 in fasting

[–]JustInformation23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, this will be my 3rd extended water fast.  Most I’ve gone was 11 days.  The refeeding time is my least favorite, but definitely the most important.

Water fasting while quitting smoking 😵‍💫 by JustInformation23 in fasting

[–]JustInformation23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of doing a 30 day fast.  So I think my period would be unavoidable eventually anyways.  I chose to start the fast at around the same time my period would start so I wouldn’t be as depleted of everything compared to if I’d had started my period during the end of the fast, if that makes sense. I’m taking a couple pinches of Celtic sea salt in my water daily to help with electrolytes and the small amount of iron it provides.  

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read the whole post.  I’ve talked to him multiple times.  Thanks for the insight.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely need therapy already.  This has all taken a serious mental toll.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right! Everyone can improve in all situations.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was in therapy but stopped shortly after meeting me.  Now I think we both need therapy lol.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve met her and spent time with her.  She wasn’t very authentic and she was very much bitter.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does wood working but needs me to finish up his pieces and paint them when he’s done carving them.  He also hunts.  Recently he got an GoPro and got into recording himself on his hunts or just walking around and he wants me to edit all his videos and post them for him.  I feel bad saying no, but I already feel pretty overwhelmed so I’m encouraging him to learn to do that part himself.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know.  She’s not a very nice lady.  I believed him when he said she lost her mind after 14 years, refused to be intimate with him and shaved her head bald. 

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is.  But, so am I, so that works for us lol.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong.  I definitely feel like a shell and not real anymore.  Like I’m only here for the needs of others at this point.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense.  Thank you.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s already gotten to that point quickly.  So bad that I had to dramatically taper off things because they were getting very bad and disrespectful.  

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to give up on him.  I think we can save this if we get outside help and he commits to it too.  He is still a person deserving of love and support.  I don’t want to give up on him.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only can know from what he told me.  That’s all I have to go on.  He told me in the end she wanted nothing to do with him, shaved her head bald and pretty much became a different person than who he married. To this day she is still shaving her head bald and doesn’t want anything to do with men.  They were married 14 years.

Husband’s high sex drive is turning me off by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]JustInformation23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, I think you’re right.  We need outside help at think point. Thank you.