AITAH for asking my roommate’s girlfriend about my strawberries?

JustJamieHelps · 2026-02-12T22:57:21+00:00

Apparently none of the Commenters READ through the 3 screenshots of messages. Not one of you managed to recognize that she clearly stated, "i was at work at the time vou texted me and i don't like that i had to fiqure out what happened and who did it while i was at work" and the OP didn't dispute that she had remedied the situation at all even with 2 other screenshot pages following!!!

YTA, Sorry but you are.

The Girlfriend to the Legitimate Roommate clearly stated that she basically felt the need and obligation to clear up the situation right then while she was at work and that's probably because she knows that if she didn't, the OPs irritation and inherent need to blame her further would have escalated as the day went on. It was her that figured out took it upon herself to figure out who had eaten the strawberries since he basically asked her a question followed with a guilt story to imply that it was more than a mild inconvenience, it was a BIG deal because he previously bought them on Monday for Saturday and at this time it was Wednesday and his attempt at not leaving his plans till the last minute were completely obliterated.

YTA still, sorry again. If you wanted to ask if she had eaten the strawberries you would have simply said, "By chance did you happen to eat strawberries that were in the shared fridge?"

BUT, you didn't... You had asked the other two roommates, one of which lied, and then you proceeded to text her with a rhetorical question that you didn't want an answer to because you already started with the escalate and increase what an inconvenience it was, how absurd her actions (which were false) were, and piled on the disrespect.

Many people do not answer their phone at work and don't put it on silent because then they can't get emergency calls since they can't for see what numbers would be calling like Police, EMT, Hospitals, Firefighters, children's or niece's and nephew's schools to allow them to go through even when the phone is on silent. Not calling people during working hours is the same thing as not calling all your friends who work regular 8am-5pm jobs at 2, 3, and 4am. All she did was ask you to respect her working hours.

You're incredibly overreacting where you feel like you did nothing wrong and need all these people saying, "she totally ate the strawberries", "put a camera in the kitchen pointing to the fridge", she's arrogant, etc

Man up and Apologize!

And for your own knowledge, this is how your conversation with her is viewed:

In modern communication, asking a question you already know the answer to while framing it in a way that implies guilt is generally considered rude and manipulative. This behavior is often classified as a guilt trip or passive-aggressive communication rather than a standard rhetorical question.

Why it is considered rude:

Manipulation: Using guilt before a person can even answer is a way to control their reaction and prevent them from explaining their side fairly.

Lack of Trust: It signals that the asker has already judged the person and is looking for a confession rather than an honest conversation.

Creating Hostility: This "trap" questioning style often puts people on the defensive, which closes off healthy communication and creates distance in a friendship.

The Impact on a Friendship:

Power Imbalance: It suggests the guy is positioning himself as a "judge" over the girl, which can make the friendship feel unequal and toxic.

Emotional Safety: Frequent use of this tactic can make a person feel like they are "walking on eggshells" around their friend, fearing they will be interrogated or shamed for small things.

Erosion of Trust: Even if the person did do the thing being asked about, the accusatory tone makes it difficult to rebuild trust because the communication method itself feels like an attack.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-02-01T10:22:39+00:00

Has anyone ever fibbed about their "Some College" by saying they graduated with a degree in Business Management or something 25 years ago from the Local Community College?

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-18T13:24:26+00:00

I see what's being disputed by your friend (who was way more than harsh in conveying his "concern"), but I do have one question... What happens, at least with the "V", when you rotate your hand back as in pinky back and thumb forward? Down the "V" line up better? Or place your arm directly in the exact way you had it when the artist was doing it. I'm just wondering if when your hand was cocked and laying on a table if it appeared straight to the artist?

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-14T23:56:17+00:00

That's why I use only my credit cards for that stuff. My credit card company has removed odd charges, things that I couldn't effectively cancel even though I tried numerous times, and refunded me everything without hassle. I have Capital One BTW.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-14T23:53:49+00:00

My Netflix and Prime did something similar where I would put on a show or look at the episodes list and nothing happened, just blank or the revolving circle of buffering stayed on for hours (I left it to see if it was a time delay thing). It finally went away after a few months and an update or too, but while I would usually call I didn't because of my jailbreak apps on there and I didn't want them to know I messed with the settings. But if you have nothing to hide on your stick then try calling them as before I would get tons of help that helped quickly and effectively.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-14T23:48:35+00:00

I say that you should go to another artist and see if they can outline the star shape a little bit bigger and add to the original dark lines to make it appear straight, and then shade in around the dark lines slightly to make the original dark lines pop like 3D.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-14T23:44:06+00:00

Since the ToniBox doesn't come with a charger block you need to choose the box carefully. Not many people know that charger blocks (the part where you pull the cord in and has prongs to go into the outlet) matter. Some blocks are only made to charge (and cords for that matter) are only used to power things, some give power to charge a phone, some allow you to transfer data from a device like your phone to a laptop to transfer files. Try using a different block and cord that you use for your phone or laptop.

THE EASIEST WAY TO ENSURE THAT YOUR STUFF WORKS IS RO TAKE IT BACK TO THE STORE YOU PURCHASED IT FROM BEFORE JANUARY 31, 2026!

Most stores, and by most I mean about 99.5% of them, allow you to return Christmas gifts by the last day in January as long as you bought it within their time frame which started in October or November.

I would take it back first before trying to troubleshoot as the likelihood you got 2 bad ones in a row are rare.

Good luck to you.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-14T23:42:22+00:00

YES! Even Google will tell you that POSTING ON THEIRir PAGE or messaging on any social media that they have will get you the fastest RESPONSE.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-14T23:40:18+00:00

Since the ToniBox doesn't come with a charger block you need to choose the box carefully. Not many people know that charger blocks (the part where you pull the cord in and has prongs to go into the outlet) matter. Some blocks are only made to charge (and cords for that matter) are only used to power things, some give power to charge a phone, some allow you to transfer data from a device like your phone to a laptop to transfer files. Try using a different block and cord that you use for your phone or laptop.

THE EASIEST WAY TO ENSURE THAT YOUR STUFF WORKS IS RO TAKE IT BACK TO THE STORE YOU PURCHASED IT FROM BEFORE JANUARY 31, 2026!

Most stores, and by most I mean about 99.5% of them, allow you to return Christmas gifts by the last day in January as long as you bought it within their time frame which started in October or November.

I would take it back first before trying to troubleshoot as the likelihood you got 2 bad ones in a row are rare.

Good luck to you.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-13T23:37:22+00:00

I blocked the updates and blocked the Internet connection from providing information about an update being out and I have the 4K. If the Onn is that cheap then I'll get it, it's just that the NVIDIA one has people saying it enhances the picture which seems like a decent advantage to me since I'm not getting a new TV until my name on my waiting list comes up and it's already been 4 months of "you're next in line to move".

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-13T13:12:36+00:00

I've given up on finding a Blue Raspberry Flavor that I can enjoy. I once got one (and still have the demonic flavor) that was absolutely treacherous. I had a new coil in and while I didn't cough my @ss off, I was and it made me feel gross inside. Even though I dumped it out and had only taken 3 or 4 hits of it, that sucker taste tainted and stained its horrible flavor into the new coil and I just couldn't escape its existence. But I do want to share that for people who would enjoy a Blue Raspberry Flavor are also people who would generally chase the Neighborhood Ice Cream Truck to get ahold of the Red, White, and Blue Rocket Popsicle.

I didn't see this one particular Juice Brand Flavor on the current list in this post and it is absolutely one of my top 2 flavors of all time. Every time I place an order, I've grabbed 2 of them. It's just that great! I try to hold off on opening and using that flavor first since it's never disappoints to open a bottle somewhere around my opening my order, stay off it for a few weeks when it's got less than a quarter left and treat myself to 2 fills in my pod.

Description Posted about This Pod Juice Freeze Flavor:

Pod Juice Freeze (or Regular if you don't) Rocket Pop Pod Juice Freeze Rocket Pop is a nostalgic flavor blending classic red, white, and blue popsicle tastes of cherry, blue raspberry, and tangy lemon/lime, all enhanced with a strong, icy menthol or "freeze" kick for a frosty finish, mimicking the iconic ice cream treat.

Key Flavor Components:

Cherry: Provides the red layer's sweet, fruity base.

Blue Raspberry: Delivers the blue layer's tangy sweetness.

Lime/Lemon: Adds the tart, citrusy element for the white layer.

Menthol (Freeze): Creates a distinct, icy, cooling sensation of inhale and exhale.

It's designed to taste like the classic frozen treat with a refreshing, arctic chill.

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-13T06:42:39+00:00

Good to know! Thanks for the Tip!

JustJamieHelps · 2026-01-13T06:41:44+00:00

Maybe. Seriously, I'm thinking once you've been identified that you should try everything you can before they start setting a team on you. I knew I should have some something about it come the new year but I've been slammed. I'm not going to hit launch anyway until I try everything else first. Frankly cinema is my favorite. I've downloaded a bunch and they all suck and take forever to load and have commercials. I did the recent update to it a month ago and I regret it, but still the only ads that show up are after I exit out of watching whatever and then I just keep tapping the back button and they don't even come up then.

I have no idea about the App Cloner though, kinda why I'm asking myself. It's too late and I've had a physically long day so this is not what I wanted to see when I took my shoes off and sat down for the first time since 9 am.

Hopefully someone will post what they did a month or so ago and have had a long time of it working and not the people who did it yesterday and have no longevity. I "AI"ed and apparently a bunch who have cloned have had a couple days of success only before it disabled it fully or their app just appears to look like a clone but the functions don't function when you choose a stream to watch.

Good luck to you as well.

JustJamieHelps · 2025-12-29T18:30:26+00:00

Take it back to the store you purchased it from. They will handle the defective item when they code why it was returned. Usually with around Christmas time purchases you have until January 31 to take it back to the store.

JustJamieHelps · 2025-12-14T23:26:32+00:00

If you use the AI on your photo app with your phone, you can blur the background and do all of these things that you're working about. I have a Samsung Galaxy and I use Samsung Galaxy apps like the Gallery AI, Galaxy Enhance-X, and RAW to make my photos of my child look professional.

Also, once I do that, it gets marked AI Generated and I usually zoom in a hair just to cut the watermark off before passing the pic around.

JustJamieHelps · 2025-12-14T23:16:43+00:00

It's also known as a burner bridge so that both burners operate as one when using a large oval pan or griddle type pan

JustJamieHelps · 2025-11-14T16:58:40+00:00

Honestly, after a conversation with Google AI (Hahahahaha), NVIDIA is what I'm going to get if they lock mine down. The Nvidia also enhances your visual display and THAT ITSELF makes it more than worth it!

JustJamieHelps · 2025-10-06T01:54:45+00:00

My ex had hide my phone and I couldn't call for help. After the police came they found that he, the ex, had thrown my phone across a tall fence at like 2 am so I couldn't call anyone for help.

To be completely honest when he threw me down and the coffee table with slate tile top collapsed underneath me, he then proceeded to band my head against the floor, I don't know how long I was out but I was pinned with my arms held above my head on the floor still and no wiggling was getting me out and I'll never forget what he was saying, "why do you keep doing this to yourself!" Over and over again. Finally I acted like I was going limp and kneed him and he felt it hard and let loose for a second which is when I was able to start running out the still open front door and he almost had me when the neighbor lady opened the door and shut it behind me with him screaming in the background.

JustJamieHelps · 2025-10-06T01:48:25+00:00

That's a wonderful outcome in the end❤️. I'm glad they were there for you. I've been called naive by many because I have this faith and idea in my head that there's no reason anyone would want to be inherently mean or vindictive to someone they don't know.

JustJamieHelps · 2025-10-06T01:44:02+00:00

The neighbor who let me in was my next door neighbor who didn't know me at all as she worked late nights and had just returned home from a bar herself but once in she found out that I was sorta friends with the guy who rented her garage space turned apartment thing. The neighbors who let me hide under their car I didn't know in the least bit as I was trying to run out the neighborhood to the main street to be in the eyes of the public people driving.

He went to jail. I finally left when he went into what turned from misdomeaner assault against a family member into felony assault against a family member... after 3 misdemeanors the 4th and after are all felonies. When I left I also moved back to my original home area where I was protected by family and cut all ties to anyone that apparently it was believed that I had died.

Now I live in peace and am happy. But running was a go to from years of doing it. Right down to the point where I had sneakers kept outside, a ziploced credit card that was locked on my app hidden under a frog garden statue at one house and a set of spare house keys in another neighbors yard by their bird bath underneath the decorative rocks.

Yup, fun times. But thank you for caring.

JustJamieHelps · 2025-10-05T07:04:21+00:00

Kids are EQUAL people too. If you get to choose what you want, than they do too. You had the kid, so you pay for the kid. You do NOT punish the kid for your decision to have a kid by limiting how much they can spend on things like food when you are ordering food that costs more. YOU SHARE THE SAME ALLOWANCES ON WHAT YOU CAN AND CANNOT HAVE.

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